Quick history I met this girl through one of my friends and she always gave me iois even though she was in a relationship. She broke up with her abusive boyfriend and is apparently sick of men, she told a lot of people that I know that I look like her ex (not the abusive one) I don't know her that well but I don't know if shes interested, playing games or trying to use me. I personally don't care just don't want to waste my time pursing her.

So I met hb9 around 3 times she always gave me iois and she knows my reputation of being a player her friends told her, her previous bf abused her and was a player shes apparently sick of men.I seen her first time since she broke up with her bf she was with my female friend last week and she was giving me iods I then started gaming her and she started giving me tons of iois but she didn't react well to my kino escalation she would laugh but kind of shut the kino down she was flirting but didn't like the kino which I found odd she then had to leave to go see her family who where visiting from abroad. I told her about a new job I got and she wanted to work in the same mall as me and they were still looking for more applicants. So I said id forward the email to her she sent me a message of just her email with nothing else I found it rude because she didn't say anything like hello etc just her email as if i were her slave so I didn't send her it I just ignored her so she started talking after about a hour and was just asking me to do things for her like let me copy your cv and send me this file do this for me etc. I felt like she was tryna make me do everything and shed take 2-3 hours to reply to 1 of my messages so I just thought screw it . She messaged me today after about 3 days now and said ''I still haven't done my cv yet'' out of no where I feel like she is trying to use me to do all the work for her or she is just really shy to directly talk to me because shes a shy girl and apparently she misses her ex that looks like me ? shes giving me mixed signals and she doesn't message me for anything else so I feel like shes trying to use me ?

I don't care Ill cut her off now if I have to so what do you guys think am i being used?

This is on you. Why the heck are you helping someone you just met? Are you a career counselor? Are you trying to date this girl or are you trying to help her wit her career?



Good for her. She saw an opportunity and she went for it. You are the one that led the interaction here, and this is not her fault.

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While I was gaming her my phone went off and I seen it was from the Job so I picked it up of course and she was standing right next to me then she asked about the job and if I could send her the link for the page so I was like sure then thats when the rest happened.

Simple interaction:

You: I'll send you the link, send me your email address
Girl sends email address
You send the link
Girl: Let me get your cv
You: (If you dont care about whether she has your cv or not) ...attaches the file
Girl: blah blah blah (something that requires effort)
You: I'm busy good luck

If you dont want to send her something because she was rude, fine. But let that be the end of it. Dont go holding your assistance hostage to get her to be nice. Either do it or tell her to do it herself.

Some player you are; and you don't even know when you are or aren't being used..

I'll tell you like one of my friends tweeted not too long ago.

"When a girl says "im hurt and not ready for a relationship it's a polite way of saying " Im not interested". If she likes you, she's going to let you fuck up her life regardless."

That should answer your question.

All you have to ask yourself is.. What am I getting out of this situation? And then.. What is she getting out of this situation? If those two things aren't balanced; you know whats going on.

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