Hey guys,
I have this girl who asks me if i want to meet up. She is kind of hot, but slightly chubby, still fuckable though. We've met once a couple of days ago, I had good game and made out with her and stuff. She has been asking me if I want to meet up alot since. I could see me having a FWB relationship with her as long as she doesn't tell too many people. The thing is that she goes to the same school as me. She's not in my class and most of my friends do not know her. There are a lot of hot girls at my school that I would rather see than this girl. Will she tell people that we fucked / are fwb? If she does, will I lose chances of getting other hotter chicks from my school?

Also, I'm scared that if I fuck her she will get really attached and kind of manipulative. She said that if I wouldn't want to meet her more she would get angry, also she started to say that she wanted more then a fuckbuddy (1st time we met!). I said I wanted to be free and wanted no emotions attached, she said okay and agreed but still I'm afraid she will catch feelings for me. Right now I'm holding it because I don't want people to know that we have fucked, I don't really know why I care about that. I'm also afraid she will treathen to spread the word if I won't see her again. I'm in a big school and walk by her sometimes (never greeted her though), I'm thinking that would get awkward if I see her in the corridors already. I am a newbie in banging chicks even though I have some options (usually quite picky). This chance could make me gain some experience.

To clear things: I have not banged her but I'm considering it.
/ Mr. Hammer

Once you get past this point, you automatically rise to the next level.

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The next next level is not caring who knows who you've been with and you don't think, talk or care about it.

But on to the point, you should take the expeirence, but only if you are forward with her about what you want. And it sounds like you have been partially. You need to tell her up front you don't want anything more than friends with her and don't want to be in a relationship.

If you were very experienced with girls, you shouldn't touch her.

Thanks for the advice. I guess I will do it. Will try to limit my time seeing her to like maximum once a week to keep it kind of cool. Summers coming and I'm going away so won't see her until school starts again anyway

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I wouldn't bang her. Just knowing that you can will give you a permanent ego boost when you are gaming other, better girls.

....And, it sounds like you are a kid, and I'm not giving sex advice to kids.

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Good Point, that's what I'm considering. 18 years hehe . There are other girls that like me that goes in my class, sligthly hotter than this girl. Friendzoned both of them though. Would get awkward in class for 1 more year, and one of them invites me to parties and stuff and have some hot friends she could wing me for. Kind of feeling an abundance in mentality even though I don't have any girl I really can and want to fuck. Going to parties more and more so I have the mentality that I will eventually strike.

Is this about the not giving a fuck mentality? Because I'm kind of in a social circle game, so I think if I fuck anyone I can my chances with other girls could decrease. Also lose some self respect

The easiest way to decrease your chances with women in general is to be more concerned about what other people think of you, than you are of what you think of you.

That said, if you don't find this girl attractive, don't do it.
If you do, then do it.

I don't understand why you bring self respect into this. What's the issue? Extra pounds or not, you still said she's fuckable. How will your self respect drop by fucking someone you apparently find attractive?

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Got it.
It might be in my head that if I don't get the hottest girl I will feel like I'm giving up if im taking the other not-as-hot alternative and therefore lose some self respect. Might be my mindset that would benefit from changing up a bit though

Your 'hottest' girl may be one I don't even look at. And my 'hottest' girl may be one you don't even look at.

An attractive girl is generally attractive to most men. But when you talk in absolutes, as in "hottest" girl, it's all subjective.

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Thats your Gut, and its right 80% of the time. She will. So considering this, do you still want to do it?

As far is it affecting your relationships with the hotter girls in the school.. At this point, it was absolutely effect it. Mainly because you're already displaying insecurity about going forward with it and you haven't even done anything yet. Anything you have to do in secret is probably something you have no business doing at all. And if you do whatever that is, there will be consequences.

On the flip side, lets say you say " Fuck.. I Want to bang the chick, Im going to bang her" and you're willing to just own it and not go to far out of your way to hide it you'll be fine. When you accept and live your truth no one can use it against you. Now, that doesn't mean you have to walk the hallways skipping and holding hands with her. Treat her like a fuck buddy, if thats what it is. Explain to her the conditions, and stand by them. Just don't go sneaking around in fear of what someone that doesn't even think about you is going to say.

Life is not about what you do, its all about how you do it. And you're attitude is what will effect your "how". Own your truth and you have nothing to worry about.

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Thanks for the reply, good point about that if I'm accepting it people can't use it against me. I think I'll meet her and tell her the conditions, that we are just fwb and that I'm not going to be that available for her. If she agrees I could bang her if I'm feeling it. Or I'll leave and try to stop seeing her if she doesn't agree. She lives really close to me, which can be seen as both a good thing and a problem.

She already said she'd be a pain in the ass, so why invite that behavior?

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Right.

Also, never underestimate the power of the "turned tables". The tables can always turn my friend. I had plans on banging my next door neighbor one time. She cute, but nothing special, so I planned to just bang her one time just because " I'd be banging the girl next door", to almost fulfill the fantasy. Next thing you know I'm in a full blown emotional relationship with the girl and it wasn't good. A pimple turns into a dimple when you're in love man; so those love handles will transform in your eyes if you keep hanging around her and banging her consistently because you guys live so close. Just somethings to consider if you're planning on going forward with this.

And just remember to tell the girl the "truth", always keep it up front and real with every chick. It'll save you a lot of trouble. Lying to get girls to hang out never turns out to be worth it.

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