I've been seeing this girl for some a couple fo months now and it's going good. We see eachother multiple times a week and when we don't see eachtoerh we usually SPAM before we go to bed.

In fact it's been going so well it has gotten to the point when she's driving to work in the morning (about 20 minute drive) she calls me and we chat over the phone. She also does this when she gets back from work. (I'm usually free around the time she's driving and she knows this)

However I'm getting the feeling we're running out of things to say since we're constantly calling and she's expecting me to entertain her while she's doing her boring drive to work and complains about it. We even had a small fight this morning where I basicly told her to stop calling me if she's in a bad mood (she was being very moody), to which she replied: Fine just hang up then. I told her I wasn't enjoying our call and hung up. We kinda ignored eachother for the rest of the day and I sent her a text asking her if she was feeling better now and she said she was. Anyway...


We've been doing these car phone calls for about 2 weeks now and it's the first time we had an argument like this, should I stop doing these even though I enjoy them (except the one this morning obviously, 9 times out of 10 we have fun and laugh) ? Could too much contact kill attraction we have for eachother?


I'm not in a relationship with this girl although we both have talked about it might happen in the future.

Yep. You should a) speak to her less and certainly not every day while b) keep meeting more women

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I am surprised you are keeping this regular. Do you not have other things to do? Or other women to talk to?

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Speak less.

I don't even talk this much to my gf of 2 years. Lol

Answer in the morning and say you're in a meeting. And slowly stop decreasing the amount you talk.

And please stop SPAM.

It's easy maintenance because they are both noobs in this.

OP; Do you do anything else besides dating and talking so much? Have you had sex with her yet?

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Well I'm accepted into police academy but it's starting in 3 months. So until then I don't have a lot to do besides working out and doing some small jobs on the side. That's obviously one of the reasons I see/ hear her so much right now.


We basicly have sex everytime we see eachother.

What do you mean by easy maintenance?

He means easy maintenance that you are unaware of how much time you are spending with her and she is unaware that the more time she spends with you, the less she will want to be around you. Time spent apart makes other people appreciate each other.


Keep doing those side jobs. Keep working out. I suggest maybe taking up a hobby as well. It sounds like she also needs to use her time better too.

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On Point Assertive.

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