Been seeing a girl in in south america..



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PostPosted: Mon May 29, 2017 11:37 pm 
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Edit:Reason I am asking about this 1 is I see potential for LTR or FB for a while. I have already planted the flag with 5 women in the 3 weeks I was there. (Google translate was godlike to me while there along with knowing little bit of spanish)

So I've already picked up and planted multiple flags in colombia. But there is 1 girl who stands above the rest too me, meanwhile I am still talking to others so I don't risk getting oneitis. Anywho, today she said to me translated in english Do you want to conquer me?. In which my reply was, I already plan to conquer you and more. Her reply was a smily face and a kiss. I assume that was the right response? If not what would have been better to say?

Also, I've been showing little interest by letting her innate pretty much 95% of all text's which I ignore for hour's then reply and I'll say along the lines when I plan on closing the talk for the night, where is my kiss? she says you can have my kiss anytime anywhere you want.

long story but has all the information about why I am asking and more in-depth
Backstory to this girl (kind of interesting and if anyone can chime in why it did a 180 I'd appreciate it). Anyways so I met her using a website which I will not name (no not late cupid or anything like that) before I got there. Anyways we met up and I slowly escalated using kino,flirting(as best as I could and more due to language barrier which she speaks english decently). Anyways the first date went very well. I met her guy friend who was friend zoned very clearly and I demonstrated more value and alpha behavior which I could tell afterwards as she was more responsive to me touching. Afterwards, I came back to her place and slept their and tried to f close but I couldn't for some reason. Yeah we kissed and play with her tits and gave her a massage which led to more kissing and the tits. Anywho the next day she send me a text saying I think we moved too fat which I responded,"I was moving as fast as you wanted to". Which in retrospect I think was a bad reply. Moving onto the 2nd date we went to the dinner and movies and walked around for a while so I could talk/flirt/etc and she was much more stand off-ish. The night I spent at her house I said something about there is a clear fine line, I said your friend david is in line a and I am in line b. Line a being friend's only and no potential of a sexual or relationship ever and line b FB/relationship/etc.. So back to the 2nd date, I could tell with her being so much more stand off-ish she was acting like I was the line a. I clearly told her I have enough friends and don't need more which she in-turn said I don't think we could be more than friends, which I said ok and we had already bought the movie tickets and I wanted to see it so fuck it I went anyways. During the movie the whole time she was touching my thigh's/holding my arm/hand/letting my put my hand on her inner thigh. After the movie she pretty much said bye I'll see you later. From there I just went NC and didn't talk to her for maybe 2-3 weeks while I traveled throughout the country and other places. I came back to the main city I was staying in before I left and texted her the day before I left and said hey I am leaving tomorrow and it would be nice to see you before I left you should come. She agree'd and said only if I give her a back massage and we get some good food. I agreed to the food and said maybe on the massage if are a good girl. That whole night she acted like we've been in a LTR and she was madly in love with me which led back to my hotel and I ended up banging, etc.. I got a job there and have maybe 7-10 girls I have been steadily talking to and gaming which are all wanting to see me again but I am going on a 2-3 vacation with this girl alone a few days after I return and since I left after the last night she has been very receptive to my flirting and she flirts/sext's/etc.. What happened in between the first date to now that made her do a 180? I am dumbfounded how this happened but I did put some feeling triggers in her head about me after the 3rd date where everything did a 180. What happened between the 1st date to the 3rd that made the 180 happen psychologically in you guy's opinion? Also when we go on our vacation how can I make sure it doesn't come back to the 2nd date? She has said things like "do you want to conquer me?" with a kiss sign and things like that now since I've left. I'm confused. Sorry for the long post just wanted to give backstory too it.

History of the girl, she is latin but not from colombia but in a country which has the rep of the women being more difficult, she has a good family relationship, she has a very wealthy family and has a extremely good paying career and has a apartment in the rich area of town.


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 04, 2017 4:28 am 
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Not sure how but I actually read that wall of text.

The only thing I could see that changed her was when you gave her the no contact and then said "i'm leaving town.' By that point she knew it was her last chance with you and that you weren't going to wait around to be friendzoned. She was probably interested all along but started pulling back as will happen for whatever reason.


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