My first real insight in to the PUA world was 3 years ago when I bought a book called the Ultimate Pick Up artist. Back then, I was 20, still a virgin and had never even asked a girl out due to my shyness and the fact I went to a all boys school.

I started reading, just looking for tips, one liners, anything. And within one week, I'd pulled a girl 18 year old girl at work who'd I'd end up spending 2 fantastic years with.

While I was still going out with this girl, I picked up a copy of the Game. I was hooked. I wanted to learn everything about this world and realized what a massive AFC I'd been in my relationship. Always buying her presents and getting nothing in return. Running round for her and cancelling plans to be with her and I decided to change, which ended up braking us up.

So, I was back on the market and decided to really put my PUA skills to the test. The first time I went out, I pulled a HB9. That was almost a month ago now and I'm still seeing her.

BUT, this is the problem. While out in the field, I did everything right but on the first date, I went back to being a AFC and I've only just realized it.

AFC mistake no1: We've been out about 10 times and I've paid for everything.
AFC mistake no2: I call and text her about 30 or 40 times a day
AFC mistake no3: I made myself exclusive to her but I know she is still seeing blokes (who she says are friends with privileges)
AFC mistake no4: I cancel my plans just to spend a hour with her
AFC mistake no5: I still have not slept with her.

So last night, I realized that I have to go back to being a PUA but I need some advise.

Since last nights date, which lasted an hour and ended cause she had to go round her mums, she's texted me 3 times and I haven't replied to any and I'm not going to reply till tonight.
I'm thinking about making plans with her for later in the week and then cancelling the day before.
Also, I know she's seeing one of her special friends at lunch tomorrow and I'm thinking of arranging something with a ex of mine and letting her know.
Lastly, when I do arrange to meet for dinner, I'm going to say 'ok, cause you owe me a dinner' and then not pay a thing

Am I doing anything wrong in the above plan?? Any advise appreciated.

right so obviously your aim for the plan is to make a new start, just one thing have u listened to any gary brodski stuff if not i will mail u some this will help u loads, right for the plan, is to start textin her but not as much and in consistantly 2 then arrange for you to phone her at night at a certain time then ring later, the ex plan is a bit wibbly wobbly id say do it but dont tell her just let her find out through looking through ur phone or something, finaly the dinner u could do that or even better is text her tell her to ring u and then tell her to come round at such and such a time then say u can make me dinner as u owe me. take it easy safe gaming

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i dunno man it sounds like she might have gotten used to this, and by suddenly jumping the gun to all this, she might ask whats up...but fuck it your a PUA and she needs to know whos boss...

Sounds like a plan except for the ex part. Just tell her that if your going to be seeing her tell her that YOURE the only friend with privileges shes going to have or else you'll be finding alot more friends with priviliges!!

As for the Dinner...Perfect!!

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Well, I did everything I said I would (apart from the ex thing) and got her cooking me dinner tonight

and she sent me a text last night saying she can't stop thinking about doing naughty things to me and that she wants to give me a long wet sexy suck so I think I might be in

i think so too enjoy your dinner and blowjob hahahaha!!

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Don't Hate The Player, Hate the Game...

Forget not texting/calling her and all that jazz--can you detect when she is giving you a shit test, and are you successfully passing them?

I see your issues as symptoms of a bigger problem--you are needy. Don't worry, so am I. But realize that neediness is your problem, not that you call her too much.

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