Ok guys first post here,
Few days ago in a bar i caught me a decent HB 8-9 she was pretty interesting and i was on top form and left the bar, her friends and my friends behind and hit a club just the pair of us. My progressive kino was going well and i kiss closed in a dark corner and made out with her for a good half hour. she said she was going to dance so i let her go and i went to the bar and we agreed to meet in 5 mins. beer in hand i watched as a good looking guy hit on her on the dance floor and she puhed him off. Delighted! i went down to the dance floor and danced with her for a bit only for this guy to come back, this time he didnt get the same cold responce and she humoured him for a while. i leaned in to her and said"i`ll leave you two alone" and walked off slowly as this i thought was the right game plan. Wrong!! pretty boy threw the lips on her and i was left feeling like an afc while he made out with my HB 8-9. just looking to learn from my mistakes and was wondering if you guys had any opinions on how i should have played it.
cheers.

Sounds to me like she was testing to see what your reaction was. You gave her permission to do what she did, and while you may not have said it in a serious tone she still took it as an invitation to see if she could wind you up. She was just having some fun, no harm in that right?
The only thing you did wrong was to not pursue her after he got in there. She doesn't belong to you yet so there's no point getting annoyed, but you can't just let some other guy take hold of your investment. I would have talked to her again and asked who was a better kisser, then teased her about it etc. Sometimes the most negative situations are the most fun to take charge of.

You upped her buying temp, so any afc could just walk up and take her home. At this point, you need to maintain your dominant frame and let her know that she's gonna be yours. When that guy comes back and starts trying to dance with her, you pull her close and make out with her. He's not gonna persist.

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