Hey guys,

In high school I used to be infatuated with this girl, she's an HB10. Literally the girl I would want to marry. I'm not in love with her anymore (2 years after high school). I made two attemps to ask her out on a date 3 and 4 years ago...
I had ZERO game. I got flaked completely, but I'm 100% sure she showed some IOIs. I didn't get friendzoned, I made my intentions clear from the beginning.

I think I went way too direct on her. During my first attempt I asked her out on a date out of nowhere. During my scecond attempt I asked her out for my high school prom, she ditched me for my best friend, who's completely friendzoned by her. I eventually got a nice date but I didn't get the girl I wanted...

About 2 years after these facts I'm seeing her again at a high school alumni reunion. It's a pretty formal occasion so I don't think I could actually pull her but I do think I should be able to finally get her number. I don't go to the same university as she does, but I have seen her at some parties. I didn't show any interest in her. 100% due to my pride. I ignored her and made some moves on other girls in front of her. She showed some actions of jealousy but she's too smart to make these actions obvious.

Again, I used to be a complete victim of a one-itis for her, but I'm not anymore. I still care about her because I still see her as a potential partner, but nothing more. I don't see her as the "perfect" girl. I still like her, even when she's flaked me twice. I don't think I'm willing to give up just yet.

What should I do? Should I make a move on her at the reunion? How should I do it? Or should I just ignore her and move on?

PS: I obviously do still care about her to write this post. I'm not thinking about her all the time, but I am thinking about her on sporadic moments.

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Well done is better than well said.

Stop planning. I think this is what gets a majority of you in trouble when it comes to that "one girl". You are going to spend so much time focused on getting her that you'll miss out on enjoying the event itself. Dress nice, socialize, be charming, and be flirtatious with all of the women in order to be desired by the maximum amount of women possible and take advantage of that. Attractive men hardly ever focus on one woman in a room full of women.

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