Went on a date last night with a super hot girl who turned out to be quite anxious/fidgety, especially at the start, and it threw me off slightly as I wasn't sure exactly how to deal with it. I was thinking: 'Hey, she's super hot (she looks like Gianna Michaels, damn son), we met on Tinder, she's probably done this 50 times before and is down to fuck.' Wrong.

Met up with her, we small talked to the hookah bar, she seems nice, not that bitchy, she's a little nervous, get to the place and sit down. She's fidgeting a lot with the book menu, flicking threw it, not reading and soon tells me she's generally just suffers from anxiety, especially on this date as she had never really met up with strangers on Tinder before and was considering cancelling it 5 minutes before we met up. I just remain chill and know that as time passes she'll calm down and relax as would I. (Still get slight anxiety in the first 10mins as does everyone).

She calms somewhat, we talk, I escalate here and there, we kiss a couple of times half way through the date, its going well enough. I was planning on pulling from this date so I pre-seeded and when I said "Hey, how about we go smoke that J (which is at my place) and come back out" she told me she's just really anxious about going to a guy's place on the first meet. I feel if I push I'm just going to freak her out, so we chill for a bit more and then kiss bye.

What is the best way to deal with a girl with anxiety?

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