Okay so met up with a girl the first time that I met off Bumble. She had the best personality you could ask for, and honestly we laughed the entire 2 hours we were together. She seemed to be having a ton of fun, and even said "let's go downtown soon"..she seemed really into me.

At the end of the night when we both stood up from the bar to leave (she got there before I did since I hit traffic), she was at least 6 inches taller dare I say more...she's a serious 10 though and would love to see her again.

We've been texting a little since the date. Seems positive so far but who knows

Should I:
1. Ask her if the height thing is a deal breaker? She maybe wondering the same thing..(will this look insecure? Im not but it was a huge difference and know it matters to chicks)

2. Go with the flow and ask her out again?

I feel like it was very obvious both of us were kinda in shock how different we were height wise at the end of the night. Should I bring it up and get it over with to know where I stand?

I didn't even try for a kiss because I couldn't reach and in the back of my mind I was like, I'm ****ed. FYI I'm 5'7

Another reason for real life meeting in the flesh on first meet i.e. without any online assistance. Either the chemistry is there or it isn't.

For this situation, as long as it isn't a big deal to you it won't be to her. I sense it is a big deal to you.

So do what you will.

Something to remember: SHE most likely SAW YOU before you sat down. Keep that in mind.

You claim everything went very well. Why assume that height is a problem? Just keep going and ask this question if it actually comes up.

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If everything went fine, who cares? I'm 5'6 and never had issues with some girls being taller than me.

If she had a great time, but would dump you over height, she's basically mentally handicapped doing you a favor.

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I seriously wouldn't mention it. Actually, don't mention it.

Height is really a mind over matter. If you don't mind - it doesn't matter.

Don't be destroying your own chances by talking too much. Shut up and do what has been working so far.

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If she's is datng you and she doesn't mind why should you? Sometimes we shouldn't create problems if they aren't really there. She seems coo with it. Don't change it

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Holy shit that's insecure and weird.

Don't do anything. Let her contact you. And yes, height is almost always an issue for women. So use an extremely dominant frame to make up for it in this specific case.

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