There is this girl who works at the Dfac(a dfac is basically a cafeteria not really a good time to try and talk as there's a line behind you). So a day ago I decided to write down a small note that basically said. "I know you are busy but I had to give this a shot. My name is xxx and my phone number is xxx. I would like to take you out for coffee sometime but if you don't want to that's fine"
It's still early bud I just want to know what I should have done or if there's anything I can do to leave an impression in her mind.

you went for it, you took the risk now you have to wait for the rewards, no risk=no reward.
maybe the line where you say "if you don't want to is fine" was not a really good idea, is like you are telling her is ok not go out with me, so basically you already excusing her for not going out with you.

I would have made small advances every time you see her. If you see her frequently enough you will build rapport with her to the point where you can casually but assertively ask her out on a date. Leaving a note and a tone of "this is a hail mary but heres my number" isn't really a great first impression.


Who knows, you might get lucky.

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Could I still build rapport and then ask her out at a later date even if she doesn't call?

Nope. You've given her your impression to her and any rapport building is now from a guy that she thinks is interested in her. If she truly isn't interested, because she hasn't called, your rapport building will be seen for what it really is. The only hope that I can see for you here is appear to be a guy that other women want. If you just remain friendly with her and turn your flirtation towards another woman then she may attempt to warm up to you because another woman, or women, finds you desirable.

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Well against better advice I decided to approach anyway. It went like this.

Me"Hey excuse me. Really quickly, I had to build up all my courage to do this but I think you are cute and my name is xyz"
Her"Ohhhhhhhh thank you that's really nice"
Me"What's your name" *handshake*
Her"My name is abc, it's italian"
Me"Oh so you're Italian?"
Her"No, I'm spanish"
Me"So like mexican spanish or south american?"
Her"South American, I'm columbian but not the crazy kind, some of my relatives are but I'm not"(qualifying herself?)
Me"Yeah I know columbians and you guys have short fuses"
Her"Yeah, well I have to go to the bathroom bye"

She was actually headed for the bathroom so it was bad logistics for me to approach her going there. My mind completely blanked once we started talking and i really didn't do any teasing or attraction techniques and she didn't seem too interested. Is there anything I should have done differently or could have done better?

Nothing wrong with what you said there, you just need volume man. She may have been able to tell that the interaction meant more to you than it did to her. Just go out and mix it up with women and don't think of one woman as alluring as she may be and is. Meet a bunch of them. When you do that, the interactions will mean WAY more to the girls than they do to you. Peace out brother.