So I'm going to a speed dating event tonight. There'll be 12 girls there. Only reason why I know is because the lady that runs it is a friend of mine and told me they're looking for two more guys. So obviously there's a slight more demand for men than women. 7 minutes with each girl. What's your advice on the game plan here? I've never done speed dating before so I'm not 100% sure how to "game" it. DHV stories? CF? What type of topics? Etc, thanks

Because of the forced nature of speed dating keep it light, fun, and don't sweat the outcome. If youve got your speed date laughing out loud every girl in the place will be counting the minutes until they get their turn with you. Other than that it is a good time to work on any opening skills that need tightening up.

Keep it light and flirty. Cocky funny approach can work well. Negs that are fun and flirty are ok. Push pull... All the usual things.

Most important is framing though. Establish your fun and aloof frame and bring them into it. Don't be sucked into their interview frame or their "I'm too hot/good for you" frame. Remember most of these women are speed dating because it gives them a big ego boost to essentially systematically go around a room and turn every guy down, or lets them go through and see who will jump through her hoops. Establish your own frame and keep to it.

And don't sweat the results. If nothing comes of it who cares? Remember you are creating a state where you are attracting them to you, and you're the one deciding which of them are worthy of your attention. If none are... Then so be it!

Although, I agree with your other comments. I disagree with this.

From my experience, chicks who go speed dating do it as a last resort. They are having serious trouble meeting good men or good friends and so they try out speed dating.

That puts you in good value because you know that the women are horny and looking for someone to f**k.

With regards to approach though, you are right. Keep it aloof, fun and friendly. Lay on the sexuality. Be physical and lean back. Let the girls do the work, but ask questions which defy their "interview" frame.

Most girls have ZERO GAME. If you let them, they'll ask you about your job and your hobbies and why you are at speed dating, and you'll have that same conversation over and over again. Bring your game and talk about what you want to talk about - I actually say—

"Don't give me these boring questions. Tell me where you've traveled."

Bamn. Interesting conversation about foreign cities. 100% match rate guaranteed.

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