Ok, two part question here.

1. What if you're stuck in an area where HB8+'s are very rare. I still want to continue to go out and continue to improve my game. How does game differ when dealing with 7 and unders? Do I risk devaluing myself by gaming less attractive women in the absense of goddesses?

2. This could be a gaping hole in my character and me trying to hide my weakness but I'm vastly more attracted to personality than to physical looks. Is it my weakness of game that makes me want to talk to less arrogant, less mouthy chicks or is it a legitimate question of putting character over cosmetics? I've met more attractive amazingly cool chicks and they rock. And, on the contrary, I've met obnoxious ugs too which I couldn't stand talking to. But I'd like a more critical, possibly more objective opinion than my own.

Bash away brothers. I'm hear to soak up the knowledge.

Well I am still new to all this so can't really give you much advice but think i can add my opinion regarding your second question (and kicking your topic up which deserves a response). I am kinda stating the obvious so im not sure if I understand correctly what you mean but here are my 2 cts:

Personally I also like personality more than a good physical looks. At my work there is a intelligent, spontanious mature woman who is average looking. But I can't help but feel attracted to her. However if I meet a hot gorgeous woman I might feel a lot of sexual attraction at first, but would find her a lot less interesting if she is immature, dumb and would depend solely on me for having fun. Not to say looks don't matter, they do but are for most of us not the single important factor.

Now what I really want to say is that instead of seeing it in a somewhat negative manner you should realize it is infact something that is actually something positive and usefull in the field. Why?

1: Because it makes you want to know and like a woman for who she really is instead of just for her looks. I am no woman but I think they appreciate not just being picked up because she has a label HB8 or HB10 or something.

2: It might make you less uncomfortable talking to highly attractive woman because your attention is more focused on their character and you don't get swept of your feet by some hot babe.

3: In the field you can use it on highly attractive woman to make them qualify themselves. Just speak out that your more interested in personality than looks, name some aspects you like in a woman.

So as long as you don't use it as an excuse to not talk to attractive woman I think it is fine. As far as my limited experience goes attraction has little to do with how cool and nice a woman is.

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If you are learning, you want to find target rich area's otherwise you will have a few minutes of trial and error before your night is done. Its just the thing, you have to be in an area with HBs to sarge. But that aside... As far as finding the targets we like. Everyone is different. I personally like personality more than looks. Due to that I have caused myself a major flaw. I am less attracted to beauty. That was due to my low self esteem previously, It was my minds way of helping me. I subconsciously made more attractive women lesss attractive so I could talk myself out of gaming them. EEEEEh BZZZT wrong.
I have the mental ability to see personality and beauty. I sarge for both. My goal is to find better looking women that have looks and personality. I wont find that easily so I need to be able to "screen" more women for the position. To do so I need to know how to game the better looking women.

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When you are the prize, you are like a diamond. If you allow her to become the prize, you become a cubix zarconia.

Looks are not everything when gaming, the three things I look for in a girl:

1.Looks-not necessary model looking, cute, beautiful etc, you know what I am on about if you are high game.
2.Outlook on life-ambitious, determined as opposed to a sloth who has a room full of empty syringes and condoms.
3.Sense of humour-how annoying is it when girls can not have a good time in your presence, they get all depressed etc. Have to be bit of a party animal.
4.Not needy or insecure


When you attract a lot of different girls, or when you go out with a lot, you will develop a way to identify what girls are going to be like?Just experience not a weakness.

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Xenu,

I really like what you have to say on this topic. Very well thought out and very USEFUL!!! Which is, to me, of utmost importance.

Sweet,

I like what you have to say as well. I think I've done a lot of the same with using my focus on personality to help me avoid the dangers of talking to high quality women. With Xenu's advice, I'm looking to rip this out of my personality and start sarging any and all women I might find interesting. Put the onus on them to meet my standards. I like it.

Tyler,

I've created lists for what I look for in a chick I'm gaming but I think thus far I've kind of forgotten about it in field. I've got to break it down to a few important details, a few important specifics that I expect the woman in front of me to have.

The strawberry fields test I think is a perfect way to find out about at least two of the things I find important.

Thanks again for the input. All of you guys' comments are definitely going to help me up my game.

- Hit