So yeah I know the sex wasn't bad because we were at it all day for hours nonstop. On the bed, standing, in the shower, etc.

Anyway, we had a great time together and she told me she doesn't want a one night stand and she is ignoring my texts?

I am not even over texting. I send her one text saying hello, what are you up to? or Good morning, I will call you in about 5 minutes.

She never replies. Anyway, I'm tempted to text her something like: "Stop acting stupid."

Not as a butt-hurt reply, but just to shake her up and make her realize she is acting stupid when she doesn't need to.

I realize there are people on here that probably think Roosh V is old news and believe he is just some sloppy hobo/Muslim convert now, but I still think the videos he makes are great and have a lot of deep insight. I don't remember which video, but he talks about how women ultimately want a man to dominate them, which means when a woman acts stupid, deep down inside she wants him to just get mad and tell her to stop acting stupid. What do you guys think about this? I think he is correct.

That's overbearing as hell, dude. Why are you sending good morning texts like you're married to this woman after fucking the first time? Give her some space, man. Damn that would be annoying.

Good fucking Morning????? Who is the woman in this situation, it's hard to tell. A dominant male is busy focused on career goals or working out, not texting first time lays in the a.m.
I know that a lot of guys here don't believe in shit tests, but I do. Hot as hell women use them a lot, both consciously and subconsciously to weed out men who are not dominant.

She probably picked up on some neediness/clinginess, and wants to see just how emotionally-centered you are.

Men who text women constantly after sex the first time convey that sex with a woman is VERY RARE for them. Play it cool.

You're acting needy and crazy, dude.

Act like an emotionally-centered, dominant male and wait for her to get back.



I think to some degree, this is correct, but NOT this early on.

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How am I acting needy? I never texted her good morning the day after we hooked up. I had her on ice for like a week before texting her.

I also have my own online business and she knows I am a busy guy, so I am not just sitting around waiting on her stupid reply.

She finally did get back to me and she was ignoring me because she thinks I am a playboy, so she thinks I am dominant not feminine lol.

Texting a girl "good morning, I'll call you in five minutes" after one hookup is needy and weird.

You were upset about her not replying.
So you asked her why she was ignoring you?

Jesus.

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I didn't contact her until like a week after hooking up...not needy.

How is what I messaged her "weird"? I have watched PUA videos where they even suggest texting shit like this lol. Then what would you text instead? No advice? You just want to flame me and give no advice? Figures.

And yes, sometimes my curiosity gets the best of me and I want to know why I'm being ignored. I had a feeling it was because I took her to a hotel for sex on the first meet up...but the only reason I sarged her in the first place was to have sex with her.

Why would you text a girl you've had sex with one time,"Hey, good morning. I'm going to call you in five minutes."? Why not just call her? It sounds desperate.

Do you need her permission to call? Are you afraid she won't pick up the phone if you don't warn her?

This is the approach of a fearful man.

Secondly, why are you texting a new lay in the a.m. when you should be working, or working out?


I am giving you advice, lol. It's to not fall in love with your phone. If she's hot, a week isn't that abnormal not to hear from her.
Never do this, my man. Early on, act and text like a man who has three naked women in his bed. A man with options would not give a fuck about a girl who was ignoring him. He'd just turn to the other blonde.


When you ask a girl why she's ignoring you, or triple text, this is what it looks like to the woman even though you aren't using these words:


pls respond
pls respond
pls respond

It's an attraction killer. Don't ask whiney questions early on, don't discuss negative emotions. Be fun, and indifferent.

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Yes, I see how my post makes me look desperate but that "I will call you in 5 min" text was advice I got from a PUA artist (forgot who), so if anything he is the one desperate not me. I also know she is a super busy business owner type, so I didn't want to call her during some important meeting, but next time I will just call without texting.

I have multiple sex friends, so I don't care if I never see this woman again. I will just call her and if she doesn't answer, I won't follow up with a text as well. I will just wait for her to reply later.