Hi Guys its been long time that ive wrote something on this Forum i had Grip i had to spend most of the time on Bed im almost back on full Health wich means i can continue with this Journey
I just had some things in my Heart that i wantet to share or ask for advice
Well im 25 its Februrary now ive managed to do an approach in NightClub 2 weeks ago and ive had a little Conversetion no big result so far im still learning alot.
The Things that i wantet to share with you guys is what i personaly think about PUA and Life in Genrell it is extremly importment to devolp a Strong a Mind wich I dont really have SPAM am im really working on it alot im trying litterly everthing i can do to stay positive and stuff i still live with my Mum I do not have any Job at all im also not employed im joining the gym i just went 2 days in row today i did not go the Gym instant i writet Letters to Resturants im trying to get any kind of Job because i dont feel good just being in my room alone playing Video games over Hours and Hours i dont have anything else to do so im trying to kill time somehow with playing Video games but now im writing letters to get a Job atleast so far i only got negative responses so i keep continue.
So guys i still have the Memorie in mind where i was in NightClub last Weekend it was really an eye Opening experience i went out to night Club completly alone and i felt really Freighend i was scared there were many Girls out there I standed next to them and i wantet to Approach i wantet it so badly inside my Head i was thinking like DO it approach for fuck sake what are you wating and stuff i tried to do it for about 2 Hours and something stoped me i dont knwo what it was probaly some insecerties or maybe being afraid to succed? well all of the sudden a Girl approched me i never tought that could be possible at all... it felt so unreal that a girl really had more Courage then i do this Girl was emedetly starting doing kino escalting Stuff she tried to hold my Hand she asked me to buy her a Drink she was saying its her Birthday lol.
Okei it is pretty obvious that it wasnt her Birthday she only wantet a Drink well for the first time in my Life i actually buyed this Girl a Drink because she ignitet the courrage in me we had a little talk i buyed her a drink then I asked her if shes going to be arround? she said yes well i went in the Smoking Room and i probaly will never see her agan i havent asked for her Number anything after that i also managed to talk with some Tall blackhaired Girl but the conversetion was pretty short no rejection tough but she turned arround to her friend pretty fast.
Okei guys my Question is do you have any Tipps on how to devolp a Strong Mind? and Strong Self discipline?
At the end of the Day what counts is how can you manage getting Rejected or not getting Obssesed with people who are trying to put you down and yes in PUA specialy this is one of the things that will happen alot ive got rejected many times when i Approached and some how the Opinion of the Girl meant so much to me that i startet to Doubt myself some girls were rude i just asked some Indirect Question like who do you thnk Lies more men or Woman and some girls were just telling me to piss off or i tried to Approach in a nomal way like hi whats ur name? and a Girl completly ignored i think you guys know that it sucks it actually ok because you see your not getting along with this girl but what happens after unconsciously im starting to doubt myself when getting rejcted my charackter isnt strong enough to rly belive in myself when i fail.
At the momment im really scared of my Mind i think my mind a big Problem actually need to give myself the Permission to fail SPAM havent took the decision that it in fact "okei" to fail and getting rejcted at the beginning but im so scared of getting a negative Response from a girl that i dont give myself the Permission to fail how can i give myself the Permission to fail because i belive specialy with Girls you can only get good if you can endure Failing u gotta fail alot of times untill you suceed but you need to give yourself THIS permission to FAIL and actually accept that it ok how did u gus manage it?
What i really want is to devopl a Strongmind where i dont actually care about Girls tunring me down or ppl in Generall i want to have a really strong mindset and keep going no matter what im also trying to quit Smoking wich is really hard im at 10 ziggarets per day now ive smoked 2 packs of ziggarts everyday before u guys have any advice ?
PS.Oh yea guys ive found a Video about "The mind"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1PSbDmV8Gw check this out and tell me what you think and sorry for my bad english
CHAT
