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PostPosted: Mon Jan 09, 2017 12:07 am 
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So I met this HB7 on a dating app and we talked for a little and set up a date the same day in the evening. Before we met, she asked me what I was looking for and I replied, that I dont know what I was looking for and that it depends on the circumstances and then I asked her the same question and she replied, "I dont know too :)" and then I said "we will find out, if it will be an affair or more :)" and then she replied: "I am not into ONS, but lets see whats going to happen"
Few hours later, I picked her up with my car and we drove around the block and chilled in the car. I spoke with her and I kinda realized that she liked me so I started with touching her hand and kissing her hand. What I found really weird was, that she would be always staring at me and when I asked, why she was doing it, she said let me look if I want :D After a while, I asked her what she would do, if I kissed her and she had a stammer and I started kissing her. She was biting my lips all the time very hard, so after a while of kissing I put my hand between her legs and I felt, that she was wet. So after 5 minutes I started going into her pants, but she was saying No, I was holding her hand but she wasn't really resisting and started groaning, as I was touching her pussy. So we took a break and she asked me to have a cigarette outside and after that I said to her "lets drive somewhere else." and so we drove to a a quite place and I started to take her jeans off and she was saying again "No. I am not gonna sleep with you", but was helping me to take her jeans off :D so I banged her in my car for about 15-20 minutes and even licked her (I was too horny) and my seat had a lot of white marks from her (guess thats a good sign?).
While that evening I was being really nice to her, ran my fingers through her hair and made her a lot of compliments, such as, that she has a nice body etc.

After that I took her home and she asked me if I want to have a cigarete with her and we smoked one and then she drove home. And I sent her a message afterwards with a smiley and we chatted back and forth the same night. The next morning I said "I want to see you today." and she replied an hour later "Hey it was really nice with you and I really enjoyed it with you, but I think its not gonna work out with us." and I replied : "Oh no worries. What did you make this decision?" and she called me on my mobile and we talked. I asked her the same question, why she thinks that its not gonna work out? She said, that she doesnt know yet, if she wants to see me again and that she has to think about it again and she said, that she doesnt want to hurt me and I replied "Why would you hurt me? Do you think I fell in love after one date? And then she replied "NO, but I have to think about this again and I replied, this is a good excuse of women and we started laughing and I said "ok thats fine. I leave it like that and would be happy to hear from you. See ya."

I dont want her to think, that I am in love or something and I want to keep having sex wit her.

So it has been 2 days, that I havent spoken to her and I would really like to see her again (affair or relationship). Since that, she liked a picture of me and a funny video tha I posted on FB.
What do you guys reckon? Should I wait one or two weeks and text her again? Or NO CONTACT and walk away for good?
Sorry for my BAD ENGLISH, but I am from Germany hehe :)

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She wanted to get fucked, not involved.

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 09, 2017 10:30 am 
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So if I want to fuck her. Should I contact her again? I mean she clearly said, if I want, I will get back to you.
I thought about contacting her again in 2 weeks or so?


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She wanted to get fucked, not involved.
Yeah, asking to see her the very next morning is too much. Even if you just want sex, you gotta give a chick space to think you're not just a horny teenager.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 09, 2017 10:57 am 
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I know that was way too early. I shouldnt have done that, but I stopped contacting her, eversince I hung up the phone. So the best way is to walk away and see if she ll get in contact, otherwise walk away for good?


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Should I text her again something like :
Hey how are you? Would like to see ya again.

Heard stories, that sometimes, when men were persistent I mean like not texting everyday, but every other week or so, that they got back the woman.

Cause she still likes stuff that I post?


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 09, 2017 3:51 pm 
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Should I text her again something like :
Hey how are you? Would like to see ya again.

Heard stories, that sometimes, when men were persistent I mean like not texting everyday, but every other week or so, that they got back the woman.

Cause she still likes stuff that I post?
She just wanted a ONS the first time. Let her breathe until she wants another one. If she enjoyed the time will you, she'll reach out again. After all, she's still liking your posts. Txting will only increase chances of being put in the friendzone


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Should I text her again something like :
Hey how are you? Would like to see ya again.

Heard stories, that sometimes, when men were persistent I mean like not texting everyday, but every other week or so, that they got back the woman.

Cause she still likes stuff that I post?
She just wanted a ONS the first time. Let her breathe until she wants another one. If she enjoyed the time will you, she'll reach out again. After all, she's still liking your posts. Txting will only increase chances of being put in the friendzone
She liked one of my pictures the same day she rejected me. and yesterday she liked a funny video that I posted. Are these signs of a slight interest?

I mean if I am not interested at ALL in a girl. I wont like ANYTHING that she posts? Thoughts?


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Should I text her again something like :
Hey how are you? Would like to see ya again.

Heard stories, that sometimes, when men were persistent I mean like not texting everyday, but every other week or so, that they got back the woman.

Cause she still likes stuff that I post?
She just wanted a ONS the first time. Let her breathe until she wants another one. If she enjoyed the time will you, she'll reach out again. After all, she's still liking your posts. Txting will only increase chances of being put in the friendzone
She liked one of my pictures the same day she rejected me. and yesterday she liked a funny video that I posted. Are these signs of a slight interest?

I mean if I am not interested at ALL in a girl. I wont like ANYTHING that she posts? Thoughts?
You're being needy. Go game other girls
Social media is for networking but everyone uses it as validation. Stop seeking validation through social media. Her liking your post just means, she likes your post. If she wants to bang again, she knows how to get in touch with you. It'll be in the form of a convo or meet up. Just chill out and game on until that day happens


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Should I text her after a week? Some guys told me to wait 2 weeks and ask her again for a date.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 09, 2017 4:31 pm 
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Should I text her after a week? Some guys told me to wait 2 weeks and ask her again for a date.
Im going to repeat it again. Stop being needy
You were just a ONS
You don't txt her, she will txt you


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 09, 2017 4:34 pm 
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Should I text her after a week? Some guys told me to wait 2 weeks and ask her again for a date.
NO CONTACT.

She obviously wanted to have sex. No amount of calling or messages will make her change her mind, and will only put her off MORE in this instance. She wasn't looking for a clinger, she was looking for a night to blow off steam and that's it.

Let her call you. In the meantime, fill your phone with numbers for other girls to worry about. Wait for her to come to you and if she doesn't, then have someone else more interesting rather than sitting down and waiting for her to contact you.


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Should I text her after a week? Some guys told me to wait 2 weeks and ask her again for a date.
Im going to repeat it again. Stop being needy
You were just a ONS
You don't txt her, she will txt you
In other words forget about her, mind your own life, talk to other women and if she reaches out, decide what you want to do then.

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Were you guys in a similar situation? And did the girl text back? Any stories would be appreciated..


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