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I have a friend and he is incredible successful with women, He picks up a girl every weekend, he has sex with them the same day or the second date, I have asked him since he is my friend right?...he just does not know how he does it, the guy is not even good looking, he is not rich he works ok but by all means no rich.
is a rational explanation for that? is anybody from this forum like him?..what this can be explained?
women go to him he does not goes to them.
Before I got into pick up, I got into a similar state for a 3-4 year period and then somehow I lost it. Back then, I didn't know what I did or how I did it, but it just happened.
And then at a certain period, I got involved with several women who had boyfriends and/or husbands. Somehow, this troubled me and I tried to look for reasons why this was so and why I couldn't get a serious relationship with single women (those who did not have boyfriends or husbands). So I turned to PUA to learn and improve my batting average with women (with the single ones as much as possible).
Overall, in the past several years, I was not satisfied with my batting average with women although I certainly got laid a lot perhaps even 4x to 5x more than some of your most active forum regulars here or some of the mods. The only difference was, those same forum regulars and mods seem to know what they're doing. I did not.
Now, I'm back to a similar state but this time, I'm very picky. After several sexually transmitted infections and bad relationships, I've GOT to be picky.
So how do you go about being natural with women?
#1. Live healthy. You'll have a more positive vibe. You'll have an above average libido. You'll have more energy. You'll look better. In short, when you're healthy, you will attract women like crazy.
#2. Learn all the tactics and techniques that there is to learn by 20% reading or viewing through videos and 80% application (approaching women, interacting with them, f-closing them). This way, you will discover which ones work for you well, which ones work for you a little, and which ones do not work at all.
#3. Make mistakes so you can fine tune your actions and then calibrate. In time, you will get good with women from all walks of life.
As to your question: Can a man be a natural with women?
The answer is yes. Nature rewards the survival of the fittest (not the strongest or smartest; but the fittest). So...
[A] Be physically fit.
Fit into the mold of behavioral patterns that make women want to fuck you and love you.
[C] Find the right fit of behavioral patterns for every type of woman by making a lot of mistakes so you can learn how to calibrate really well. _________________
Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate
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