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PostPosted: Thu Dec 15, 2016 9:09 am 
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I don't think it has anything to do with PUA tactics.

Guys like Heywood, Arch, J. Daniels, Eddie, etc.


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Because they spend more time doing it than they spend talking about it.

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 15, 2016 9:22 am 
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Because they spend more time doing it than they spend talking about it.
Are they all 6'2" solid muscle?


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PostPosted: Thu Dec 15, 2016 9:27 am 
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That's just Arch.

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 15, 2016 2:10 pm 
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Who knows.

I spent some time on the RooshV forums, and after a while, it became obvious that at least a good few of the guys who were getting laid non stop were very handsome! (since they'd met other forum members who confirmed it) I'm sure it must help a hell of alot.

Another HUGE thing, in my opinion, is things like location and general lifestyle. I know a guy who has banged about 400 girls and he's only in his mid 20's, but he works as a rep in various holiday resorts and has non-stop access to drunk 16 year old girls. Must make life easier than if you are an accountant in a small town!


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So many excuses..

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Remember the Rubik's cube? Well I doubt it, but humor me.

The Rubik's cube was invented in 1974 by Erno Rubik, a Hungarian architect, who wanted a working model to help explain three-dimensional geometry. A puzzle.

The puzzle became a very popular toy, because nobody could seem to solve it.

At first......

Then a few people started solving the puzzle.

Some of those solvers were just natural puzzle solvers it was easy for them, a few flips,clicks and turns, everything fell into place.

Some really struggled to solve it, but they decided they wren't going to be defeated by a silly puzzle, so they worked very hard to become proficient at solving it.

Some were pretty lazy, and decided to sit next to one of theses people and look over their shoulder, and repeat the same process.

Some blamed the world for creating a puzzle to difficult to solve. And gave up.

Some just preferred masturbation.

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I appreciate the mention, but you don't know if I'm successful or not with women lol. I'm 6'3 but I'm currently around 20% bodyfat with twiggy arms and a pot belly - shit's a joke!

Wanna know the absolute secret that's keeping you from being better than 99% of the other guys? This is the only time anybody will claim to have some kind of "magic pill" advice and it'll be legit, trust me. The secret is to stop comparing yourself to other members of the forum and go and take some action.

I made a thread in the PUA discussion section or whatever it is, it's called "ask yourself better questions" - you should be asking yourself "why could I be twice as good as J.Daniels?" instead of "why is J.Daniels better than me?" (read the thread and you'll understand)

The fact of the matter is, you could be better than anybody and everybody on this forum if you seriously wanted to. Well, everybody except dtrak at least.

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I fucking hate this shit because it forces me to put a huge negative spin on my whole life to eliminate the excuses of others.
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Who knows.

I spent some time on the RooshV forums, and after a while, it became obvious that at least a good few of the guys who were getting laid non stop were very handsome! (since they'd met other forum members who confirmed it) I'm sure it must help a hell of alot.
Would it help if I sent you some pictures of me? Lol I've seen other guys on this forum who get pretty much any girl they want and they're average looking and happy to admit it.
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Another HUGE thing, in my opinion, is things like location and general lifestyle.
I'm 27 years old and I'm at college, no job and living with my Mom until I (hopefully) go to university next year. I'm far behind with my life, and I'm studying accountancy so it's not the party heaven you're expecting. It doesn't stop me getting girls, though it doesn't particularly help lol - I'm working on it.

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I know a guy who has banged about 400 girls and he's only in his mid 20's, but he works as a rep in various holiday resorts and has non-stop access to drunk 16 year old girls. Must make life easier than if you are an accountant in a small town!
Yes it makes it easier for him, but I'm STUDYING TO BE an accountant in a small town lol. You have to stop making so many fucking excuses and if you really want to compare yourself to others like a little bitch, compare yourself to that homeless guy that picks up women effortlessly, let it ignite your fucking passion for improvement and GET SHIT DONE!

Believe it or not, I've actually come a fucking LONG way too lol. Couple of years ago I was an ambitionless chain smoker who woke up at 3pm most days and played video games until about 9am. If I compared myself to Jackzero or Dragula then I'd feel shit about myself in no time, but if I compare myself to the guy I used to be and think about the guy I'm trying to become, shit feels nice.

If I can get girls in this situation that most guys would consider pathetic, then you can in your situation.

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Because rejection is only temporary. You have no idea how many no's you get to a yes. As you get better, you get less no's but you will always have a lot of No's.

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I fucking hate this shit because it forces me to put a huge negative spin on my whole life to eliminate the excuses of others.
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Who knows.

I spent some time on the RooshV forums, and after a while, it became obvious that at least a good few of the guys who were getting laid non stop were very handsome! (since they'd met other forum members who confirmed it) I'm sure it must help a hell of alot.
Would it help if I sent you some pictures of me? Lol I've seen other guys on this forum who get pretty much any girl they want and they're average looking and happy to admit it.
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Another HUGE thing, in my opinion, is things like location and general lifestyle.
I'm 27 years old and I'm at college, no job and living with my Mom until I (hopefully) go to university next year. I'm far behind with my life, and I'm studying accountancy so it's not the party heaven you're expecting. It doesn't stop me getting girls, though it doesn't particularly help lol - I'm working on it.

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I know a guy who has banged about 400 girls and he's only in his mid 20's, but he works as a rep in various holiday resorts and has non-stop access to drunk 16 year old girls. Must make life easier than if you are an accountant in a small town!
Yes it makes it easier for him, but I'm STUDYING TO BE an accountant in a small town lol. You have to stop making so many fucking excuses and if you really want to compare yourself to others like a little bitch, compare yourself to that homeless guy that picks up women effortlessly, let it ignite your fucking passion for improvement and GET SHIT DONE!

Believe it or not, I've actually come a fucking LONG way too lol. Couple of years ago I was an ambitionless chain smoker who woke up at 3pm most days and played video games until about 9am. If I compared myself to Jackzero or Dragula then I'd feel shit about myself in no time, but if I compare myself to the guy I used to be and think about the guy I'm trying to become, shit feels nice.

If I can get girls in this situation that most guys would consider pathetic, then you can in your situation.
You seem fairly cool. Good to know you are able to do well with girls despite not having some amazing lifestyle etc.

I didn't mean to come over as some hardcore game denier, or anything. It's just I can't shake the belief that if a girl looks at you before you've opened your mouth and think you are ugly, nothing you say or do will convince her to sleep with you. I'm not saying you need to be brad pitt handsome or anything, but I really do think looks matter.

And yes, you're right about comparing yourself to others being bad. I read the 'i just got laid' rooshv forum sometimes, in an almost masochistic way! It hurts to read about people who seem to get laid whenever they want but I can't stop reading the posts, lol.

And yes, I don't intend to give up either way. I made about my 500th approach since reading my first pickup book last night. I also tried to pull some hot, crazy girl at a house party who stripped naked in the kitchen, but no luck! Just stalking her facebook now!! haha


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I appreciate the mention, but you don't know if I'm successful or not with women lol.
Agree'd with this. OP, you shouldn't make the assumption that somebody is good with girls and gets results just because they're posting a lot on the forum.

There is however, no one answer to this question. Why a guy is successful could come down to a lot of different factors.


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I appreciate the mention, but you don't know if I'm successful or not with women lol.
Agree'd with this. OP, you shouldn't make the assumption that somebody is good with girls and gets results just because they're posting a lot on the forum.

There is however, no one answer to this question. Why a guy is successful could come down to a lot of different factors.


Could this be (or partly be) down to age, location, job etc?


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