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I fucking hate this shit because it forces me to put a huge negative spin on my whole life to eliminate the excuses of others.
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Who knows.
I spent some time on the RooshV forums, and after a while, it became obvious that at least a good few of the guys who were getting laid non stop were very handsome! (since they'd met other forum members who confirmed it) I'm sure it must help a hell of alot.
Would it help if I sent you some pictures of me? Lol I've seen other guys on this forum who get pretty much any girl they want and they're average looking and happy to admit it.
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Another HUGE thing, in my opinion, is things like location and general lifestyle.
I'm 27 years old and I'm at college, no job and living with my Mom until I (hopefully) go to university next year. I'm far behind with my life, and I'm studying accountancy so it's not the party heaven you're expecting. It doesn't stop me getting girls, though it doesn't particularly help lol - I'm working on it.
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I know a guy who has banged about 400 girls and he's only in his mid 20's, but he works as a rep in various holiday resorts and has non-stop access to drunk 16 year old girls. Must make life easier than if you are an accountant in a small town!
Yes it makes it easier for him, but I'm STUDYING TO BE an accountant in a small town lol. You have to stop making so many fucking excuses and if you really want to compare yourself to others like a little bitch, compare yourself to that homeless guy that picks up women effortlessly, let it ignite your fucking passion for improvement and GET SHIT DONE!
Believe it or not, I've actually come a fucking LONG way too lol. Couple of years ago I was an ambitionless chain smoker who woke up at 3pm most days and played video games until about 9am. If I compared myself to Jackzero or Dragula then I'd feel shit about myself in no time, but if I compare myself to the guy I used to be and think about the guy I'm trying to become, shit feels nice.
If I can get girls in this situation that most guys would consider pathetic, then you can in your situation.
You seem fairly cool. Good to know you are able to do well with girls despite not having some amazing lifestyle etc.
I didn't mean to come over as some hardcore game denier, or anything. It's just I can't shake the belief that if a girl looks at you before you've opened your mouth and think you are ugly, nothing you say or do will convince her to sleep with you. I'm not saying you need to be brad pitt handsome or anything, but I really do think looks matter.
And yes, you're right about comparing yourself to others being bad. I read the 'i just got laid' rooshv forum sometimes, in an almost masochistic way! It hurts to read about people who seem to get laid whenever they want but I can't stop reading the posts, lol.
And yes, I don't intend to give up either way. I made about my 500th approach since reading my first pickup book last night. I also tried to pull some hot, crazy girl at a house party who stripped naked in the kitchen, but no luck! Just stalking her facebook now!! haha