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PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2016 12:11 am 
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Hey everybody so I talk to this girl in the hallway during lunch and Im trying to make her my gf but it gets so awkward we will walk around for 5 minutes with no conversation and I never now what to say/do I cant flirt for shit and I cant start conversations for shit I just literally dont know how to talk to girls any advice I'd appreciate it thanks


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2016 12:43 am 
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You don't have to flirt from the gecko. Just get friendly and playful. Fun is your ultimate currency, it's why people want to be around you. You can start the flirting once you break down her barriers and she welcomes your advances.

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Hey everybody so I talk to this girl in the hallway during lunch and Im trying to make her my gf but it gets so awkward we will walk around for 5 minutes with no conversation and I never now what to say/do I cant flirt for shit and I cant start conversations for shit I just literally dont know how to talk to girls any advice I'd appreciate it thanks
Why are you trying to make her your gf?
When you see random guys do you automatically want to make them your best friends too?

The girlfriend title is not something you give just about anyone and especially just because she's a bit cute. That's something to be earned.
There's some advice. Talk to girls as if they're normal people you find attractive. Don't worship them and come into the interaction with a "Please be my gf I'll take whatever I can get" mentality.

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PostPosted: Fri Oct 28, 2016 12:03 am 
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Well im trying to make her my gf because I think shes really funny and a great person in general and No I DONT have that "Please be my gf I'll take whatever I can get" mentality


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 28, 2016 12:58 am 
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Well im trying to make her my gf because I think shes really funny and a great person in general and No I DONT have that "Please be my gf I'll take whatever I can get" mentality
You have max an hour worth of conversation with her. You have no idea if she is a great person. Just invite her out somewhere. "Trying to make her a gf" will just put a lot of pressure on yourself to act a certain way when you really should be finding out if she's cool or she's not...cuz I bet you are thinking with your dick right now.

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PostPosted: Fri Oct 28, 2016 2:00 am 
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I actually did not look at it that way at all damn. Thanks for your advice guy


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 28, 2016 6:37 am 
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I actually did not look at it that way at all damn. Thanks for your advice guy
That's what I meant. Realistically speaking you don't even know her. It's not her you like, it's the ideal you've created for her.

Whether or not you like her you'll figure out once you actually get to know her.

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