I was talking to a mate of mine about girls that seem to "give up" to guys that anyone would consider to be acting extremely needy. I know of 3 cases like this, all of them virtually identical: guy likes girl; she want's nothing to do with him; he goes on and on and on; eventually she accepts him and they end up together. No game, no skill in seduction, just constant pressure.

I am wondering what you guys think of this. Is it some desperation on the girls part that eventually makes her settle for a guy like this? Is this over insistence actually working, as, i don't know, some sort of "he really likes me" type of thing? Or what gives?

The Wear Down Method.

When a girl tells a man that she is not interested in her in a romantic manner, but instead of going away, the man hangs on, pops up uninvited, and helps with anything the she needs. He uses these tactics in hopes that he can wear down the girl's resolve, ensuing the relationship he wanted.

Can it work though?

Sure but it's a fuck load of effort, for something that likely won't last long.

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These hos ain't loyal

What i'm describing is text book hard core neediness.

Heywood Jablowme you are spot on. The relationships did not last; the guys actually revealed themselfs soon after as creeps and the girls regreted ever being with them. I had to play bodyguard for one of this cases lol

Still, i remember giving them advice to leave it be, and then to find out that they ended up with the girl; if only for a short time, made me wonder. All the talk about this and that and move, never gonna happen etc, and yet...

Guess it's a matter of effort as much as it is of skill.

Like Heywood said, it's a lot of fucking effort for these guys. Pretty much what orbiters are. They are there when the girls needs something and the dude they are banging isn't rolling out the red carpet everyday and the girls use these orbiters like that. Sure, after months or years they get with the girl but these relationships don't last. i've actually chuckled when I seen an orbiter finally get the girl I was seeing. Sure, we are broken up but I usually joke that I will give it about 3 months. Next thing you know, she is banging another dude within the time frame.


Happens all the time. Don't be that guy.

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Probably going to wind up being a SUPER healthy relationship! (Sarcasm... for those of you who don't know me)

I've been that type of guy before. It can work but you'll be the woman of the relationship. You'll never be able to stand up for yourself because it's already been acknowledged that you need her and she's fine without you. She'll feel like she was tricked into it and she'll resent you. Oh and she'll cheat on you a lot easier.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

This is a BS theory, who can respect himself won't do that shit. Always you can you this shitload of effort in order to detect what is missing with you to be a desired man and keep up improving.

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