I am using an app similar to Tinder where 2 parties have to swipe right before they can talk to each other.

A lot of times when I get matched with a girl, I feel like she is not interested and she is just wasting my time. I ask questions and she answers. But when I say "ok, you seem interesting, do you want to meet up?" she disappears.

Look, I am not upset about the rejection. But don't fucking waste my time. You know what I mean?

How can I make the process more efficient so the girls who are not truly interested don't make me go through 100 messages before I find out she wasn't even interested? I feel like I need some kind of a filter or something that filters out all those girls who are not serious?

And why do girls do this? I find that the majority of girls don't answer you when they are not interested (great) but some do answer. Maybe they are just looking for a cyber buddy?

simple '' can i see you'' first message

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A girl doesn't know if she's interested in going out with you just because she swiped right bro.. When a girl swipes right all that means is " I think you're attractive". It doesn't mean " I want to go out with you". What if you're an attractive lunatic? Thats why theres a conversation portion of the experience. If it wasn't all about swiping right, you would swipe right and then send her a location to meet you without any prior conversation.

Therefore if the girls aren't interested in going out with you all that means is.. " I didn't find anything about you interesting aside from the pictures that i found attractive"

Now don't get me wrong, there are time wasters on dating sites. Women that are just looking for the attention, but even some of them can be converted through engaging conversation. However, its not about gauging as much as its about creating interest through conversation. What do these conversations consist of?

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just try what i said, wont take much to test

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I guess my conversations are boring? I will tell you about my latest conversation:
Man: Jessica, were you born in Germany?
Woman: Yes, I came here when I was 3
Man: You seem interesting. Why 2 medical schools? [in her profile it says she went to x med school AND y medical school]
Woman: I have a masters in health sciences
Man: What's your goal in opening a profile here?
no answer

Fortunately this one was short. There have been times that the conversation went on and on and she disappeared. I remember one where I talked to her about our children and what we would name them to make the conversation fun, and she kept writing lol. Then when I asked her "do you want to meet?" she disappeared.

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If I was ya man, baby, you'd
Never worry bout what I do
I'd be coming home back to you
Every night, doin' you right