It occurred to me that I am not as successful as I could be because I am too nice. It's not that I'm overtly nice, in fact, I rarely say anything nice at all, but I'm passive-aggressive.

I need to be an unapologetic bad boy. At this point, I can't even bring up the topic of sex with a girl let alone ask her if she wants to come back to my house and fuck.

How am I going to get any if I can't even ask?

I am uncomfortable expressing my sexual desire for them. They love to be taken, not coddled and "loved" and "respected," etc. Save that shit for the movies.

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This exists on a spectrum. It's not binary, passive wuss or jackass bad boy. Just start doing what is best for you, preferably without causing any harm to others.

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Eh, careful throwing blanket statements around... Best way is to be flexible and not rigid. Sometimes I have to be sweet, caring, gentlemen, if I want to get anywhere.

Isn't this the line of thinking that landed you in prison?

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Not many emotionally secure woman will spread her legs for you if she doesn't feel these things. The whole point of comfort building is to incite positive emotions in her.

You're allowing the freakin media to bias your image of what a bad boy is. A bad boy is really just someone who challenges a woman, incites positive emotions with banter, flirting, push/pull, etc, and is honest with his desires for her.

Guys don't feed the troll. Redstar is usually is good at getting like to 3 pages of "talking" followed by 1 page of bashing the top posters. Don't waste your advice on this dude.


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No that was a substance abuse problem combined with an undiagnosed mental illness.

And that still fucks my game up because I can't even introduce myself properly. I have to hide my past. It's not about being dishonest, it's just about the fact that people judge you on the past no matter how different you are in the present.

It seriously fucks with my inner game 24/7.

I'm not necessarily ashamed of it, I just don't want it to be the first thing people know about me.

I'm not sure if "people deserve a second chance," or if I just wiped myself out of the game for good for something stupid I did at age 22. This is another reason why I emphasize making money, so that I have something to make up for that.

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At least you're finally admitting to being Redstar

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The issue at hand isn't acting like a bad boy, that'd be the same as putting a band aide on a broken finger.

Rather, the issue is that you have feelings of shame towards your own sexuality, which in a sense is a denial of the self.

Why are you running from yourself?

I don't think I have issues of shame with my sexuality. What makes you say this? I have no problem fucking a prostitute at a moment's notice for an hour or until she just asks me to finish because it's been too long.

What am I running from? I don't think you know the whole story, but I would only tell you on PM.

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Of course you have no issue having sex with somebody you've paid for, there's no chance of rejection.

With a woman you're invested in, on the other hand, there stands the chance to be rejected in any number of ways.

You're not Bart's alter ego by any chance, are you?

Don't confuse the way you were treated in jail with the way you ought to treat women.

You're a little boy who talks about what he doesn't know about.

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