Hi guys! While answering to another user's message, I started defining a few issues I've noticed during my stay abroad.

Here in Poland I face something like a "double barrier".

One one side, there are the linguistic barriers among the girls I would like to pick up; I'm an Italian with a decent level of English, but here I find Polish, Greeks, Germans, Spanish, Russians, Ukrainians, etc. and usually just few of them speaks English fluently, and except in Spanish I cannot yet sustain a complex conversation in other languages. How should I move? Are there any specific methods? I simply tried to speak English slowly and clearly, or get an interpreter among the other students, but I got mixed results

On the other side, I encountered a more serious cultural barrier: being Poland a country with deep Catholic roots, it's somehow difficult to persuade girls to open their hearts (and not only their hearts) to me. After my previous exploits in the dorm, now here girls have started seeing me, "the infamous Italian" as a German chick told me, as somehow the Devil incarnate, or at least someone to be careful with. Also, an even more sad situation, the girls I seduce are left with something like a stigma, an invisible "whore" sign on their heads. A., the Austrian I slept with days ago (you can find a report in the "lay" section), now faces a difficult situation, being seen at first as a whore, and only later as a person.

I'm not comfortable with it. I want to leave good memories of me, pleasant feelings, and generally obey to the Good Camper Rule. Some of the girls here are really nice people; I dont' like to hurt them, directly or indirectly.

What the community suggest?

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