Guys im gonna be 100% honest here, im just posting this to make myself feel better because you guys know this doesn't matter, you just need to kind of convince me or whatever and help me get rid of my insecureties i have SPAM (yes very selfish thread)

Gf just told me she had a guy with a huge dick, much bigger than me (im 7-7.5 inches depending on hornyness)

So length is above average, girth is just average,not very thick but not thin, just normal

also i know that sex is more about emotions +'mental than just physical touch

Im just worried/insecure that he might have been able to satisfy her more psychically wich i never will be able to

She said it hurt the first 2 times but after that it felt nice, didnt say it felt better than with me and if she could trade mine in for his she wouldnt

His was basically a little bit more in length but a lot thicker

She said best sex she ever had was with me and im the only guy she ever experienced a orgasm with (this was before the big dick talk that she said this)

Im also just seeing the picture in my head of her getting fucked by a really big one, it feels bad

Yes guys i have a lot of inner game issues, on this forum to hopefully solve some of them,

I know this is something im gonna keep thinking about a lot, my question to you is to kind of talk some sense in to me that this is no big (ha-ha) deal, at the moment i can't really help myself

Why worry? That's way, way above American average (5.6 inches)I'm right at 8, and I'm 6'2.


Most girls don't orgasm just from intercourse. That's why you need great oral game. This is the most important part.


What an awkward conversation! Why even ask her that? That's weak ass shit right there. Stop verbalizing your insecurities. Keep it in your head.

Yeah, and that's all that matters. You should make a girl cum every time and she'll be yours for a long time, lol. My girl averages 3-9 orgasms in an hour when we mess around. she's a spent, sweaty, and exhausted mess at the end, usually just passes out.


That would turn me on, actually, lol. I like thinking about my partner experiencing pleasure and being super eager and slutty. Makes things hot.

Have more of an open mind and don't be afraid to let go of some jealousy and neediness. Or, turn it into some role playing, unlock some mental doors for her and let her express her sexual desires freely (you can help trigger this, too), no matter how shocking. Things just keep getting better and better from there in the bedroom once both partners can express themselves freely without fear.

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I don't wish to visualise other guys' dicks and I find it disturbing that you've provided enough detail for a police sketch artist to draw it.

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Haha! She is lying to check your ego man. 65% of guys are 5.5-6.5 inches. Top 10% are 7+. Only 1-2 % are 8. Don't be ridiculous. Most girls see 5.5 to 6 inch penises and could never tell a 6.6 from a 6.1 etc

How the fuck could she tell a 7.25 from a 7.5 or an 8? Ask yourself that. Visually and spacially women are bad at judgement.

This is coming from a dude 6.2 and decent thickness

What if she told you she'd been in a gang bang and fucked 6 guys at once?

Who cares?

It's a guy who's in the past. If she wants to hit him up and fuck him, she's gonna do it. If she was just telling you to tell you, well, I really don't know the point of that. But reality is, if she really wants that cock more than you, she's gonna go get it. That's just the type of girl she is... Or is it the biggest dicks always get the repeat business? Lol

Relax man. If she's gonna go fuck the guy again....... Oh well. Take your low self esteem to good looking loser and buy a penis pump if it's that big of a deal to you.

Where is he now ? Don't get insecure.


And to help you get over it....it was a black cock, and this man choked her out on more than one occasion.


Happy trails!

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Dude, she could tell him that for any number of reasons.

-to make him jealous
-to save face bc after all, it makes her look bad if she has only had small dicks
-to make him work harder
-to take him down a peg and check his ego
-it is true

But honestly, the percentages are overwhelmingly on his side even if he is slightly above average.

Not to mention, how the hell is a girl gonna spacially be aware of a half inch difference? Comon....

Gotta wonder what your sources are for that info. Those numbers are bullshit. But it's the internet, no surprises there.

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Maybe it was true, you know.
Or maybe she said that to make you jealous, make you feel insecure, inadequate, to piss you off, to make you work harder, I don't know, the list goes on.
Tell her your last ex had big boobs and see how she reacts.

Dorkley has made multiple threads on the same situation. His gf has told him the same thing a few times in graphic detail. He's insecure about his dick size and has put way too much thought into it as a result.

Then she's playing head games. She probably senses he is insecure and gets a kick out of it.


OP, maybe try penis enhancers? Saw some threads on here about that. Dream big, man.

Sorry misread the title "Girlfriend had bigger dick in the past"

figured this was about transexual girlfriends

There were differences to be sure, and nothing was this explicit. But you best believe I looked up the numbers because of this thread. I'll give you sources if you need them but you can just google them very easily

People in this thread (going to be unnamed) are probably full of shit and information regarding penis size on the internet is 99% bullshit.

Here's the best penis size data you're going to find.

It's a meta-analysis of clinical measurements from various countries using standardized measurement technique.

The average penis is about 5.2" .. plus or minus about 1.25" gives you 90% of men.

That means indeed that most men are actually between ~4" and 6.5" erect.

http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1 ... .13010/pdf (full study)

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/03/0 ... 91672.html

Reader's digest.

Of course, girth is more important after some normal amount of length anyway.

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Men, how much of your self esteem is attached to your penis size?