I use to believe that girls could instantly tell if a guy is gay or straight, but I learned a few years ago that wasn't the case.

I was living with a brother of mine for a year, had house parties with him with lots of people, and later found out that that multiple girls had asked him if I was gay or straight. LoL...

I'm a pretty hardcore metro. Diesel Korbin shoes, $200 designer jeans, etc... But, I thought girls could just "tell."

were you having sex at this parties?

No, I intentionally didn't get sexual with girls around my brother, and never ever let my parents meet a girl I was involved with.

I have complicated family problems. My mom is very religious and got into a swearing fight with one of my brothers about me going to highschool instead of homeschooling and being around "those sluts!"

It was a little hard on him when he was younger, even thought she was just a stepmom to him, he still moved away from the family so he could date girls in peace.


I was so sheltered, I didn't even have a single friend outside the family until college.

Honestly, you guys should just know my entire story... After I took that RSD bootcamp after freshman year in college, I didn't just get rid of all my old friends to change my image a little...

I also had to sever all friendship linkages that linked back to my family before I was comfortable getting involved with girls just so stuff didn't get back to them.

Well....you're a "pretty hardcore metro" dude, not having sex at parties with women. I dont think its a stretch they'd think you are gay. I mean, how much leeway do you expect them to give before coming to that assumption?

Ha, yea... But I was always told "girls could always tell."

That shatters that belief!

Lol. You aren't trolling right .....right?!

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Well shit, I guess I'm "metro" as well? I mean for weekend / upscale casual I wear Geox or Zegna Sport shoes, some kind of designer jeans (semi skinny or normal fit) and slim fit tops (button down shirts usually) that actually work well with my upper body shape. I was asked if I was gay once in the last 10 years. It was a block away from a gay club.

I'd say there's something else you're exuding that's making the girls confused. Your lack of interest in them (avoidance to talk to them) is definitely part of it.

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Nope... I wish I was, but no... My life is bizarre.

Honestly, MM kinda hurt my game a little. I read frigging every single PUA book there was about nine years ago... It's not just the family/religious issues. I can be fully attracted to a girl, yet I know my body language so well and can control it so well she won't have a clue.

There is definitely a little bit of fear of showing attraction in me...


God, none of my issues have anything to do with the game... They all have to do with unresolved family issues. I need to move to the other side of the country again and get away from them!

Reminds me of the time I was moving in to approach this girl, then I noticed my dad was walking my way in the same store, wow... Scared the sh*t out of me... Needless to say I turned course very fast! He never saw me.

LOL

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Girls can't "instantly tell".

Aside from that, see a therapist. Things won't get any better. Fucked up family backgrounds is something that always needs to be fixed.

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IMHO, skinny jeans take away from masculinity, so ditch those.

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Kind of agree. Although skinny jeans are really not the same thing across brands.

I usually wear slim fit.

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