Hey guys, I'm feeling really unfocused on things whether it's people or just simply reading right now like my mind is in a fog of some kind and it's affecting my actions and decisions. Note I think I know what it is. Likely alot of video games and watching T.V...

Now I'm aware of the issue which i'm focusing on reading and stop playing video games and tv all together. But my question with Focus is how do you guys build intense focus? In anything how do you guys clear up that mental fog and just see the world clearer.

stuck: So I also feel stuck, I'm in school and started working a little again. But i pretty much just go to school to and go home. I don't do anything at all in the weekends and feel stuck because i don't really have much money. I've worked on Daygame on my own but i try to approach and usually just approach maybe 2-3 times in the course of 2 hours because it's that fucking scary to me. But when i'm with wings like a machine gun approach on woman. The problem is most the guys live i game with live in L.A. But I don't live close enough to meet them consistently nor do i have the funds to always go down there.

So i've feel so fucking stuck and i'm sick of where i am in life right now. But i feel so helpless about it being on my own. I feel like gaming on my own isn't the really effective. I want to win and i know i can be great at this but there is a part of me that doesn't really believe it.

Moderation. There's nothing inherently wrong with video games. Unless you spend your entire day playing them.
Go the the gym. Get hobbies. If money is tight think about an internship. Or a part time.

There's no secret to being laser focused. The only secret there is is for you to realize the hardest part of achieving just about anything is the actual beginning of the process. Once the wheels start turning momentum starts working in your favor.

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What a pity..

Improve your diet, cut out the junk and overly processed chemicals.

Look into cold showers. Just do a quick google search on the benefits of cold showers.

Exercise.

Give up masturbation for 90 days.

Set an alarm and start waking up a bit earlier and take a walk in the morning.



Whatever you current routine is, has created the state you are currently in. You change the routine, you change your life. Sell your video game system, give your a friend your tv. Anything, just do something, fast. You can get a new tv, but you can not get your time back.

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Thanks guys, i've already made some changes. cut out junk food and focusing on water. Working out now, and being more focused in school. and starting to get more hours at my job. I'm feeling better, but there is of course alot more i want to change. I would totally sell my games but me and my little bro share so i can't get rid of it :/ but i have greatly decreased the amount of time i've played on it.

Lol, you don't have to sell your games. Just moderate that shit. I would recommend writing down small goals and working towards them daily. You will end up with big results.

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Awesome Thanks bro!

Then give up bro.

Fuck fighting the good fight. Chasing after cars and clothes. Big houses and other empty bullshit that'll never make you happy anyways.

Let yourself live an interesting life. Stop seeing your bank account as a sense of accomplishment and see it as somewhere to hold onto an important resource of yours to make shit interesting.

Realize that a shirt is just a shirt and a car is just a car. Stop chasing after the stupid shit and start doing something interesting.

It doesn't cost very much to do something interesting dude. Get creative.