Ok, just read a random quote that mentioned mystery saying that day 2's, first dates whatever, should be mundane as possible? I.e. like going shopping (something you need to do, like '' I gotta look for some new trousers, come with me, it'll be fun/whatever), as opposed to going to a woodland park/local swamp (nature etc, something which people don't usually do).

Thoughts?


Gotta call a HB in about 8 hours time (gotta sleep first!)... but wanna have a definitive idea of something to setup. Most importantly I need to be confident when I suggest it, (lets go/do THIS on Tuesday) as opposed to ringing her without any idea of what to do/no fucking clue! The 'mundane' day to day idea seems alot easier to setup... alot more casual, crowds. The more exciting goto a park, stroke squirrels etc is alot more obvious it's a one-on-one intimate thing. At first i was all about the goto a park idea, but this mundane approach is kind of more appealing to me as it takes the pressure off.


cheers!

firstly, call her in 9 hours...

Now that you've eased the growing one-itis you can think about what you want to do... I usually like to do a few things, spontaneousness is essential to attraction.

I say you do something along the lines of: Grab coffee, talk for a bit, go shoot some pool, sit have a beer (martini), then go to a club and dance the night away.

I think that this, "mixing it up" scheme works wonders and shows that you are an interesting individual.. Plus, if you spend more time with her you build comfort and thus, increase the chances of a f-close

Good Hunting.

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