facts:
-she is definately ACTS like she is interested but im not sure if really attracted. i need to analyse this.
-she does almost anything i say. i say "lets go for a walk/coffee/whatever" she does it. seeing she is not in a meeting or with a client or something of course. (idk why, i guess i have some magic ability to create curiosity, or its a conspiracy lol.)
-we text flirt like hell

Question!

We were sitting on a small bridge with a little stream running underneath in the forest (super romantic spot) and i ask her "so whats up next monday"

(meaning ofc "do you wanna / can u meet up with me"?)

she says "big meeting so im gonna be really busy..." etc etc

me: "damn... can i come with you?" in a playful manner (i have absolutely nothing to do with that meeting and i have no clue what its about.

she says: "hmm... i could try to fit you in my pocket...?"



what the hell does that mean?

I would say she was returning your playful manner, joking about trying to sneak you into the meeting in her pocket, but its hard to say without being there.

Keep at it man you got it

thanks man i thought it was pretty funny. i dont remember exactly how i responded, but it was something like "nah i dont think would fit" lol, but then i MAY have went a little AFC and gone "hey if the offer still stands we could still try." a few minutes later.

so its a good thing. what more should i know? any other suggestions/questions/tips?

Ya not sure what you are trying to accomplish with that. Next week is a lonnng time from now. I wouldnt even want to setup another date that late in advance.

If she likes you why didnt you try giving her a kiss right then and there?

She seems to respond well to you being a leader so next time (all the time) be a leader when asking her out, and be a leader while you are out like telling her lets go instead of asking "would you like to go to this place next", and you will do just perfect.

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm.........

make out? are u crazy dude? i havent even kino escaleted practically anything. (but now that i think about it, we were sitting there for a loooong time AND it was cold as fuck. then her son had a "dentist appointement" she forgot about or something. did i fuck up?) ive done some trust tests and she does respond well but that would just be attempted mouth rape. she needs way more relaxing. im gonna try another kino trust test and see how it goes, and then maybe. i saw this on youtube and it is a fuckin good one.

also, im not just gonna stick my tongue in her mouth. if shit goes to fuck, work is gonna be really akward for a long time. basically i need another strategy to stick my tongue in her mouth. tips?

and remember, this is a career woman with a busy schedule, im fuckin lucky everytime i get a glimpse of her, so the pushy "lets go" boss attitude isnt gonna work all the time. she is a busy person with meetings, clients and travels and it could backfire ordering her around. im thinking a more respectful/careful approach, with a few "do this" here and there. what do you think?

Think you are trying way to hard trying to analyze and stuff... but its good knowing what to look for. Just dont get caught up with it, if she is next to you, she likes you. (at least thats the way I see it)

So ya just next time see if can get her out late in the evening sometime after 630pm or so, work on the kino (hold hands, arm around waist, light touching,kiss on cheek) and work your way up to a kiss. I say kiss not makeout. If she starts making out then good. Just get the first kiss out of the way. Then you can try and kiss her again and makeout and fclose in the same night next time.

And ya who cares what happens at work? You are wanting to do this, so it shouldnt matter what happens. However, if you stay calm and be yourself (not use lines from youtube) 100% you will reach your goal with her.

Man you have to express your desire in some other way. Drop the jokes, stop acting like her friend with vagina.

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Tips?

And i do! If she would ever show the text messages we've sent to eachother i would be convicted of sexual harrassment and she would be fired lol. she likes the flirty texts.

we also do it IRL but not as directly. more indirect. friend zone isnt gonna happen, trust me. im in way too deep. this is gonna sail or sink.

gimme more tips dammit!

Did you invite her to your home yet? I don't like to message back and forth with women all the time. Too much talking doesn't increase attraction.

What I usually do if logistic allow is set a date (drink, never restaurants, movies... You get the point), meet with her, say I forgot something home, introduce her to my place, then take her for a drink, be sexual with her, light touching, brazing, staring (not creepy), overall you have to radiate with sexual energy, and she has to know it, talk about sex, then I suggest a movie or drink at my place. Pay attention, I said suggested, I don't ask, girls don't like questions.



Since she's already familiar with my place it will be automatically easier for her to decide. Tell her to take her shoes off (it will be easier later) and then I come dangerously close to her, violating her "private space", and just stare in her eyes while my palm is on her lower back, almost touching her ass, squeezing her body to mine and then I'll go for kiss, but I'll just graze her lip a little bit. [DON'T LET THIS last longer than 2 seconds, otherwise she'll look for a quick exit, be fast on the trigger]

Small digression:

Now some of guys here won't agree, but I like to make her really wet before I try to sex her. I play a lot HOT 'n' COLD stuff.

e.g.Saying I like her, but like a friend. Giving her just a little bit of my lips when she wants to make out, sticking only tip of my dick in her and making her beg for it.

Back to game:

So I grazed her lip, then I come up with:

"Slow down girl, I'm not that easy" - Please use this sparingly, it's incredibly cheesy, but if you made it this far it won't matter.

I continue:

"I need to download the movie, you make yourself comfortable"

I start downloading the movie and lay next to her, stare a little bit further, and just be honest:

"I want to kiss you" - Or just kiss her

And make out with her and take her clothes off. I like to have some music playing in the background while we fuck.

Please, also read bunch of stuff how to make her horny. Also have in mind, sex for girls isn't just sticking your dick in her blender, sex for women started the moment you unlocked the doors of your house. Meaning: Foreplay is the key. Read on internet how to be a great lover. I think Eddie Fews wrote good article related to the topic.

Use condoms, I honestly don't, because it takes an hour or less for me to finish and rarely can a girl finish me off. Be sure she doesn't have any STDs (you need to know her better to know this).

THIS ONLY WORKS IF THERE IS ENOUGH COMFORT AND TITANIC AMOUNT OF SEXUAL TENSION.

My $0.02

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Fucking a dude.... How many posts are you going to make about the SAME GIRL?

Holy shit.

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as many as it takes lol

btw. direct DID work. thanks for that. (not that i admit i didnt have to start indirectly.)

You are so lost man.

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LMAO.........

After telling telling us we were being assholes about it telling you to go direct and you can't even admit you were wrong about the indirect approach. Clueless.

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look man! the indirect/direct feud has gone on for a long time and theres a place and time for everything! Different situations need different appoaches! Indirect approach for a long time plus escalating sexual tension at the same time to avoid friend zone is VERY effective. Its the direct approach that seals the deal. I admit i was wrong and thought i had to go indirect ALL the time (which i admit i was wrong), it was nessecary in this particular situation.

Be honest: Would you rather bang a hot chick you know is smart and successful bu building sexual tension for the longest possible time, or would you just bang someone before you knew them using the direct method?

me: banging someone you've built up indirectly using tension for a loong ass time is just so much nastier......................