so I've recently gotten into the tinder stuff. Seems to work pretty well for now, but i have a lot of problem with women being experts at photoshop. They have 5 nice pictures, but then after the small talk you get the name and number and they turn out to be ugly.

I'm pretty decent at setting up dates and anticipation through the texting, but how do you let these people down in a proper way afterwards. I dont want to be a jerk to these girls and say something that will hurt them or ghost them.

I was thinking maybe I should go out with them anyway and just have some non-sexual stuff and the whole friends thing, but i'm pretty afraid of stage 5 clingers as well...
Or is there some secret pua, deconstruct the whole attraction thing as well?

It's a waste of time to go out with a girl you're not into, plus that also leads them on and gets them excited over nothing.

I can't even begin to count how many times girls have ghosted on me so you shouldn't have to feel bad doing it to them. But I also understand about letting them down easy. Just say you met someone you really click with and you wan't to see her exclusively. It doesn't really matter, just say anything other than 'well...you're just a little too ugly for my taste.' lol

Facetime or SPAM, or any other video chat platform.

Unless I am 100% sure that a woman is attractive( and even sometimes then) I will not meet them or give them nearly any of my time unless they FaceTime me, SPAM me, or make a video of themselves and send it to me. Too many SIF(secret internet fatties) and photoshop masters.

And I'm not at all against being honest with someone who photoshopped themselves to look a certain way they know they don't look just to waste and play with my time. I return respect with respect. Respect my time and respect me, and I will show you double in return.

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lol, good way to put it.

I wish I had followed this advice on my last Tinder date-fest before my current relationship. I invited a couple women to my place on consecutive days, thinking their head-shot was nice. I had to turn both away after ten minutes of pleasant conversation.

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If they went to the lengths of misrepresenting their appearance, fuck em', they've lied as far as I'm concerned.