Hello everyone, my name is Scott and today I'm trying to change my life. I'm 19 years old and have little to none experience with girls. In the past, I have been together with some beautiful girls but never end up making a move. I never know if I should go in and am afraid of being denied because I despise failure. Girls come up to me all the time at time and give me hints that they are interested in me and when approached I always shit my pants and can't think about what to say to them. Seems cowardly, but I focus mainly on looking as good as I possibly can, which causes me to be very materialistic. I have actually never approached a girl before or even talked to a random girl at a bar. I have only gotten with girls who have made a move on me to be completely honest. I would consider myself to be a good looking kid, great sense of humor, and very caring yet I cannot figure out how to actually pick up girls, which is why I am posting here. I know deep down I have the capability of bringing home the hottest girl at the party and would like to turn it into a reality.

What do you think you need to do in order to take home the hottest girls?

You need to get in the trenches and grow, you know exactly what to do but your ego is stopping you. If you fear rejection then you must overcome it. You do not cure the fear of heights by looking good. You have to expose yourself to the uncomforts in order to grow.

The best things in life require fear and anxiety. It's down to you to control this anxiety by taking action. It's a little insulting that you haven't even tried to earn the skill.

Get to work, bro. I have worked my ass on this for a decade and still do uncomfortable things everyday.

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Welcome. Let us know if you have any questions after you actually start approaching women.

You'll only make yourself stuck if you fumble around forums asking hypothetical questions without having taken any action.

I recommend starting a journal in the Field Reports board. I also highly recommend trying out the Newbie Mission stickied in General Questions (this board).

In the future, please include an actual question in your post if you're going to post a thread in General Questions lol

Lol get over being "despising failure."

You know what that really means? You're a little bitch that cries when life doesn't go your way. Toughen up.