Ok well I know from girls iv tlked 2, um they get fingered n their ok with it, in fact they like it...err...coool, so my question is, when where and how?

I hear the usual cld b in a car when making out, or in the movies, but idk if I cld do it, n if I somehow do, where n how do I do it so I do it right?

So I'd like tips on:
*convincing urself todo it, and feeling comfortable.
*how to tell if the time is right
*where is the right place? Or a good place.
*HOW? So its very pleasing, to her...

You will feel comfortable doing it when you know how to do it properly. To tackle questions 1, 3, and 4 I would seriously recommend learning/watching the White Tiger Tantra by clicking here. As for learning when to do it, I wouldn't recommend in a public place. Use Kino Escalation and go from there, start with touching, hugging, kissing, 'advanced' touching, and then move onto fingering.

- Memento

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Clip your fingernails and wash your hands before hand. Dirty fingernails can cause the girl to have an infection.

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Thx memento, I don't have internet yet (am using my sidekick) but am getting it real soon, so ill watch it then....

Lol...and thx see kay ill definetly keep that in mind

What if a girl does not want to be fingered. By telling you or pulling your hand away? Do a freeze out and do it again a few moments later? I'm kinda stuck in escalating.She never has been fingered or had sex before. What to do?

I can't really advise on where or when to do it. I have done it with my ex girlfriend's parents sitting on the couch next to us, under a blanket of course. But I think you should really build up to it at first. You start making out for a while, then grope a little, and the way I progress to actually fingering is I start rubbing her on the outside first. Then based on how she responds actually go in. Just make sure to wash your hands before and after.

Dont worry about washing your hands after. Just lick your fingers clean and take a sniff.

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where n how do I do it so I do it right?

Do it in a place she feel's comfortable & safe (her house?) not the car or the movie theatre , i don't want to be eating pop corn with you to bunnies going at it beside me.
go grab a book on the female anatomy/ or google images, find out where the clitoris is...give that a nice gentle rub, when shes feeling that...don't worry you'll tell by the little moans, give her the finger (be gentle) and mix it up...clit/finger/clit/finger..

hope that helps...

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WHOA. Okay, now, THAT's bold.

I hope you didn't shake Dad's hand before you left, LMAO.

Ha ha. No I didn't, but when she started gasping and breathing heavy I knew it was time to quit for a while. All though he did catch us making out out in the basement with her shirt off straddling me, that was fun.

And he didn't KILL you? ...SOMEbody's got a cool dad.

haha my ex gf gave me a handjob under a blanket and her dad (a big police officer) told her to go upstairs so he could talk to her. All he said was "I know the blanket trick, so don't try that again" and i was like o shit. i was pretty scared around im after that. But she did give head in the back of her parents car (big suburban) on the way to the beach and we pulled it off.

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Haha. Dude its awesome when you pull that stuff off right under her parents noses. Its just way more fun when you know you could be caught at any moment. I think girls get off knowing that.

Heh, as long as we're telling stories, I was fucking my ex-girlfriend while I was staying at her parents house for a month. We were both like jackrabbits, but we were on strict orders by her parents not to do anything while at their house. What this basically added up to was we would wait (not always) until her parents left first and then we'd fuck around three of four times until they'd get back.

We were doing it in the room I was staying at which was right next to the garage, and we always closed the garage door so we could hear it open and it would give us some time to recover and her to exit the room. We were going at it pretty damn hard, she was moaning loud and breathing heavy and I was totally absorbed in the task at hand. And just as we both came together, her dad opened the door connected to the garage and walked into the house and past our open door. If he had just looked slightly to the left, he would have seen our sweaty post-coital bodies intertwined with me still penetrating her. But her didn't--just walked straight past and into the kitchen. He yelled, "Anybody home?" And we frantically put on our clothes and then acted like we were taking a nap together. Closest call I've ever had.


To the OP and others that ask--you will know if she is okay with it if you put your hand down her pants and rub the outside of her pussy. If she is cool with that, she is cool with letting you stick it in. Just rub it gently though and make sure it is lubricated when you do. If you want to lick your fingers to make sure, it's wouldn't be a bad idea. Typically you'll want to shoot for two fingers. One is usually not enough even for virgins and three tends to be too many. You'll be able to tell though.

The standard technique is to put two fingers in and curve them upward into a "come hither" motion. Then just move them back and forth, in and out. If you think she'll like faster, gradually increase the tempo. Use your imagination though, different things work better with different girls. Just do what she responds well to, and stop if she isn't. Don't be afraid to ask, just keep her in the mood. Don't be timid, say firmly, "You like that, baby?" or something like that.

And DO NOT rub the clit directly with your hand. Most of them are too sensitive and it will get painful very shortly. She will get enough stimulation via your palm indirectly. If you are really shooting to get her off, the simple fact is you need to use your mouth or your cock.


And for the love of God--is it that hard to use proper spelling and grammar? Put in the effort to type the extra two letters in "you" and "are", and people will take you a lot more seriously.

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Lmao thx all of u for ur advice n ur stories

And for Fiction, I'm not using proper grammar mainly because am using a sidekick to write these forums. I currently don't have internet. I liked your advice, thank you.