There is this thing that is bugging me and i thought i should share it with you guys.bear with me because my post may be long.so let me give you a quick profile on this chick.super hot.cute face amazing body.met her 2 years ago.she struck me as being slutty from out text conversations and the way she was even dressing.

we had a date and she came dressed super slutty and i thought that was an invitation to take her home.i suggest watching a movie at my place.she says no.since she was dressed slutty and looked like one i subtly suggested we fuck.she gets mad and gets into a cab and leaves me there.

she stopped responding to my messages after that.fast forward two years later,i bump into her.we get talking and we kinda had long phone calls.she keeps talking about a boyfriend who seems like a bit of an arsehole.anyway she insists we only be friends but talks about sexual stuff with me like she may send me suggestive texts but when i get sexual with her she gets offended.my guess is she is a slut but she is not attracted to me.

Anyway we planned to meet yesterday during lunch hours.she turns up and says we can't have lunch since she has to go to someplace.i say okay and subtly suggest i may be having a date myself.she gets super jealous and offers to pay for a dinner date with me.i tell her i'll meet up with her after i finish up with my date.i say cool.she turns up dressed super slutty.i try making things sexual but she keeps resisting though she has accused me a lot of times of being a player.i tried everything with her from being aggressive to super nice she still won't bite it.

anyway after our dinner date,she sends me a long text message about how she loves her current boyfriend though he is an arsehole and that she can't help but love him.she tells me am nice to her but she cannot control who she loves.she says she wants me as a friend and that i am amazing.anyway i tell her am going to the mall tomorrow to do some shopping.she asks me to pass by her house and bring her some stuff.i seriously got offended at that.shouldn't her boyfrind be doing her chores? I am thinking of cutting her off but i feel guilty because she seems like a nice peson.what to do?

OP if you want to fuck her then you need pre selection homie. And when i say preselection you need to make it clear that you can fuck other hot bitches! Fuck one of her hot friends good and watch how quickly she begs for your dick. You remind me of myself before i discovered this forum. I would always get hot chicks, they would flirt and send subtle sexual hints but when i try to close, i get shut down!

Long story short, i was being friend zoned for being too nice. All that sexual talk was just beta bait. If a girl gets sexual, make a move. If she rejects your escalation, then you need to apply some game or call her out on being a flirt. I read the book "no more mr nice guy" i suggest you do the same. It changed my attitude and helped me improve greatly.

I would reccomend keeping her around as pre selection and then gaming her friend. One of the reasons i have a handful of female friends is because i keep the ones around that are cool but wont let me beat. They are good wing girls and usually always have at least 1 friend that you can hook up with.

Please, this has 0 to do with her 'being nice'. In fact with all the confused signals she's putting out and in spite of your attempts to sexualize things you're still clinging on to hope.

Either put up or SHUT UP. In other words, either go to her place with the intention of operating from a sexual frame (and respecting IF she shuts you down by leaving), or move onto someone receptive to your advances who ISNT attached.