so i met this girl while working graveyard bartendershifts. She asked me out, but I couldn't because of work. So now all I was left with is a name.

Added her last night on facebook instant accept and some small banter going on. hooray!

Since I've already seen her and she's shown some intrest already I figured fast forwarding to the date. Turns out she's leaving the continent for the next three weeks.

Any thoughts and tips on how to keep it going, just wait it out or try to set some date set up already? Do you try to demonstrate value over facebook conversation? I have honestly never done a lot of facebook stuff, usually I just use it to set up a date, but the three weeks seems like a gap...

Would you consider keeping in touch while she's on the trip or just leave it with the simple send me a postcard and see if she's for real and asks my adress...

Either meet and close before she leaves or talk to her when she gets back. The more you talk over text or online when you haven't already established a seductive frame face to face, the greater chance you can mess things up.

Sorry but she was looking to bang that same night

I know you was working but you didn't figure it out, you could have wrote your number on paper and tell her to meet you after you shift

Now she has left for 3 weeks, you know she isn't going to stay 'Faithful' to you for that month, so the more you message her, the worse of the dynamic in my opinion because you get yourself labeled as the guy that didn't close her

Just tell her to message you whenever she is back in town and chase other girls. I don't get how a guy can text that long and risk oneitus without even so much as to kissing her yet

Some brief facebook likes will be enough, 3 weeks is a long time trying tell her you just saw her twin or other some needy crap you don't care to talk about

Lesson learnt, it's your job to figure out seduction when the girl presents it to you like she did in the bar,

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thanks guys,

You are right, timing is completely off and f***ed up the timing. had some convo last night, but she's already pumping out the shit tests. Moving on...

What sort of shit tests is she doing?