I met this girl in an intensive english teaching job. We hit it off and I make her laugh. She's asked if I was seeing anyone and has demonstrated the typical IOIS. She's 10 years younger as well. She plays the guitar as I do and has asked me to come round to hers to change her strings.."and we can have a few beers"

The course just lasted a month and finished yesterday with a staff dinner. There were about ten people there. There was a noticeable increase in kino, but the drink was also flowing and I got drunk. Not silly drunk, I was in control but drunk all the same. When we were walking to get a taxi she said" I'm just going home for a shower and straight to bed. I'm so tired."

Of course that meant nothing for me in the bedroom department. I hid my disappointment(which was brought on by the booze, if I had been sober I'd have said goodbye and quickly arranged the guitar date) and walked her to taxi and gave her a goodbye hug and kiss on the cheek. I'm cringeing now thinking about the cheek thing. So afc. She repeated the the guitar thing but I reckon if she was really into me she would've fucked me last night.

I'm going on other dates and doing things right in general but last night was a downer.

Next move is basically "no contact" go ghost right? Or send a text in a couple of days?

Girl invites you over

A month later you havent gone

You drop girl off at a taxi to go home.

Instead of joining her you dont.


Wtf is there to ghost in this situation?

Tbh, chick should ghost you....cause no offense, youre retarded. I say that not to be mean, but I dont get how you fuck up invites to come to a girl's place like this.

Lol girl was basically screaming "sex" and guy doesn't make a move. Classic

The girl I'm with now was saying "my mom doesn't like anyone coming over past 6 blah blah" and I said "no problem, just open your bedroom window babe, our secret" and had some amazing sex hiding from her parents.

You look at shit as obstacles, not opportunities, that's your fucking problem

No offense taken. Just didnt get a vibe going to the taxi. The other invite was 5 days earlier, not a month, but I had other stuff on and I'm not free til next week.

Thanks for advice.

a man who doesnt treat sex as an priority. you're surely stronger than I

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What Neo said with the addition of:

Drinking is obviously affecting your game, the fact that you mentioned it a few times only suggests you were not in control of yourself.

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Cheers I'm way ahead of you re drinking. I'm going to give it up.

Should I just message her and schedule the guitar date?

This is actually the biggest problem. I don't even see the drinking problem everyone else is pointing out lol

You're assuming that women should take the lead. That's the man's job.

Think about what you said for a second; did you actually give her a chance to fuck you? Did you even think of creating a context where that would have been possible that night? Did you ask her to fuck you? Did you do literally anything to make that happen?

Or did you just expect her to take the initiative? Never expect women to take the lead. You lead.

Normally you should felt hornier because the effect of alcohol. Actually that what happens to me when i drunk. but like other posters said, it effects your judgements negatively.

And finally who hesitates, masturbates.

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