Hello everyone,

Its nice to know I am not alone. I new to the scene. I will tell you a bit about myself first quickly and then talk about a girl to see how you guys can help.

I do a lot of things good with woman I am just a bit shy mainly because I dont dance wich I WANT TO FIX SOON! And beacause I need more social proof in more places even tho I have some.

I have read The Art of Seduction a couple of years ago and have made wonders out of it really good read!!! I also read on askmencom.

Ok recently I met a really fine girl gorgeous!!! She's 21 really nice body I would say a 8 or mb 9.

So this girl has left her boyfirend like 4 weeks ago. I seen her a couple of time before meeting her last sat. She knows a couple of my friends and everytime she went over to say hi she never said hi to me and didn't even look at me. This is when she was with her boyfirend.

Now this sat I went out with my firneds and she join us there because she is talking to a firend of mine who has a girlfriend. But they are not doing anything. So I was talking to a girlfriend of mine at the bar and suddenly I feel some one hitting me on my back. I turn ove to see and there she was smiling at me very flirty and I just acknowledge her and say hi and keep talking to my friend and left like three minutes after that to the bathroom.

Later I when out and sat down and two girlfriend of mine arrive and quickly sat on my lap and give me kisses and hugs and argue about who will sit on my lap. DHV She was around looking. Then later she was at the bar with my friend and I buy them some drinks and talk a bit wich she was paying lots of attention and eye contact.

My girls later then started getting pictures of me with them and my friennd and she joins and good kino me for each foto.

Then later in the night my cousin was sleepy and left and she offered to take me home it was about 3AM. The bar closed like at 5 and we when out to eat with two more of my firends who wich she knew. We joke around on our way her driving C&F and aftre we eat we whent back to my firned place to smoke a blunt wich she mentioned a couple of times at the bar because she knows me and my firneds smoke. She paid for it also.

At like 7am after talking shit and laghing a lot and her showing me her ver cool exotic rib tattoo we all started saying good bye. In some moment in the night I told one of my friends that I would be going home with him because I didn't think she was serious and she had to work at 11am on sunday and it was like 5am.

So when we about to leave she insist droping me at my house because is on her way and also my friends but anyway you bet I ended up with her . I was really tired and didn't get her # on my way home but we did talk and I made her laugh and shit. After we said good bye she told she wanted to jangout wiht me again and I said sure I would be glad to and left.

On monday I got a rqst form her in facebook. I add her on FB and left a comment saying:

That we had a blast and I hope she could be able to rest soon and that she is the best for droping me at my house so late even tho she had work and told her we talk soon.

She then responds:
that she had a blast and that she slept at work on the floor and and that she wanted to see me again kissess

I dint respond to her again I just thougt to wait to see her again since I am also daiting 2 other woman and still seeng my ex girl.

But today she send me a message on facebook saying she wanted to see me today that she got her paycheck and wants to got out and leave me her phone # for me to call and then said that If a can't see her then to go on friday to dance salsa wich I told her I want to get clases.

I dont know what to do know I mean should I go along or did I did good in not calling her today? Should I call her firday or thursday? Leave her a massage?

I feel bad for not calling today and going out with her. Did I did good in just ignoring her message today?

Or did I do good on ignoring her message and now have to come up really fast with a PLAN to take her out?

Comments plz, flame whatever.....!!!!!

Thanks all!!!!!

How would you handle this?

I feel there is some momentum going here how can I keep it up? Even tho I ignore her massage and didn't got out with her last night. I just haven't found a situation like this in the forum or in MM.

Any help please thanks before I make something stupid. I am reading on attraction, kiss close & qualifing for now any suggestions?

Thanks

Ok I just answerd her message,

I told her that I saw her message in the morning told her i got out of work late and went somewhere bofre my house. I asked her what time she got out of work at the mall beacuse I was going to buy a jean and she can join me for a little while. I also left her my email so she can add me to msgr. And told I would call her so she can have my phone#.

Am I losing points in the callange area?

She told me in her message that if I couldn't meet her yesterday that I dont forget to go dancing on friday. Should I go or make something up?

I know that she thinks of me as a challenge but I dont want to lose that how should I handle this while keeping it cool?

Thanks

My advice ease up see her less often, neg a bit more, let her see you flirting with other girls, just the ussual pattern. Making it as if you're not going out with eachother at all.

Sound good?

Very good... its golden

I have only seen her once last sat. Before that was just with friends she stop to say hi when she was visiting her boyfirend and stuff. Wich only happen like 4 times in a year.

Thanks for the advice is GOLD love it!!

How would you do this? Ignore her comments on facebook? Should I lie and tell her that I have plans when asking me out? Or should I just go? I think this girl is gonna start asking me out a lot because she have lots of free time and already let me know that if not she will still anyways make space for it with me.


What do you think about the comment I leave her?

she's horny, she wants to get fucked
go dancing
get drinks afterwards
go to your place or hers
do et

you know what I think same this girl is ready for the check mate.

I called her yesterday to see if she wanted to go with me to buy something at the mall where she work but she was alredy at her house.
she told me to call afterward to meet. I never called but got a massage from her at 12am asking what was I doing. I didn't returned the call. My causin had a accident and I have to take him to the hospital and my battery was dead. so I found out this morning about the message.

I decided to call her in morning before work because I alredy have thrown off two meets she wanted. and told her what happend. she told me she was out till very late again and had to much to drink. I told her that I would go to this place in the afternoon and then go to the place right next to it where she always hang out if she wanted to meet tonight. she told me yeah to call her when I was on my way so she knows I was already there.

Sounds like you're handling it well, good luck!

Agreed with Fin. Just make sure you're not ignoring her so much that she gets the wrong message