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PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2016 5:34 pm 
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Hey guys sorry this might be long. So I met this 9 couple weeks ago threw her a DM on Instagram and she bit right away. Switched to txt and got a date lined up 2 days later. Quick background I'm a lot older than her I'm 26 and she's 19.Date went really well went for a couple drinks then back to my place. Starter hooking up right away and she ended up giving me a bj, sleeping over and another bj in the morning. We texted a bit the next couple days she was being really flirty and sending me lots of subtle hints. We ended up making plans for Thursday night for her to come to my place. She worked until 9 and said she would txt me when she was done. After work she texted me saying she wasn't feeling great and was going to go home. I teased her a
bit and said I would hate her forever and we texted the rest of the night. So last night I texted her around 10 saying do I get to see you tonight ? And nothing I haven't gotten any response. I'm kind of thrown off here as everything seemed to be going great. I haven't texted her agin any advice would be greatly appreciated!!


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PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2016 6:58 pm 
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she gave you a bj and you didn't fuck her,but you did text her all night long,lets hang out instead of do i get to see you,anyway,she will either respond or she wont,you shouldn't care more then she does


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PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2016 8:33 pm 
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what's with the all day texting lately ? You guys are being too available for these chicks. And be assertive about seeing her. When asking a woman out it should be a mutual. Declare that you want to see or if you want to be a little bit more suave you can ask her out without asking a question like


if you'd like to join me, I will be going to my favorite pizza place.


Easy peasy.


Or

I'm thinking tonight, my place, drinks, movie, good times.

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 12, 2016 10:24 am 
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It's really important to understand that texting IS NOT good for getting to know each other.

The only purpose of a text is to SET UP A DATE.

Most guys mess this up, so they end up doing text-fests. What ends up happening is they
feel like they got you, and they soon lose interest.

You can't convey anything but your words through texts. You can't use your voice tone,
your presence, your energy...you only have your words.

So limit the amount of texts to 2 or 3 MAX to set up a date, and save the getting to know
each other for the actual date.

Here's a video I made on texting, it may help you out.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SZZHO6FIjQw[/youtube]

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 12, 2016 12:13 pm 
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what's with the all day texting lately ? You guys are being too available for these chicks. And be assertive about seeing her. When asking a woman out it should be a mutual. Declare that you want to see or if you want to be a little bit more suave you can ask her out without asking a question like

i gotta stop testing soo much then


if you'd like to join me, I will be going to my favorite pizza place.


Easy peasy.


Or

I'm thinking tonight, my place, drinks, movie, good times.

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 12, 2016 1:59 pm 
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Why didn't you fuck her again?

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