How exactly does one go about making women feel this way, in a short period of time? Like, you met recently but they feel as if they've known you for a long time.

Rapport.

How do I find out the things she likes the most? I can't just interrogate.

Tease her. Then open up about what interests you -- make yourself vulnerable -- but keep it light and fun. Share stories. Have a genuine interest in learning about her as a person as opposed to trying to figure out what to say next or how to get her to feel certain emotions. Tease her some more. Escalate.

You need to learn the art of the conversation.

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I don't want to delve deep into the "art of conversation". Advice on this subject must BE WITHIN your personality. And girls sense when you're rigidly following a pattern and you'll only appear fake with agenda of buttfucking her asasp. But here are some guidelines you should modify in a way that fits the rest of your personality.

Don't. Don't interview her. She's not on a job interview, leave technical and everyday questions for your friends (when is your birthday, do you have brothers/sisters, do you move a lot, how many boyfriends did you have, etc.) Rather, ask questions that have less logic and more emotion (what color would best describe your personality, or: if you could be anything in the world what would you be)

Don't ask things, assume them. What kind of response would you get from questions like "You must be from California, all girls I know from there are crazy" or "Are you from California?".


Avoid religion, politics and heavy topics - Self-explanatory.


Don't overthink, try not to think of questions and "whats she thinking" attitude. Leave that when you're with your boss. Instead, just LISTEN, too many guys just worry about "the next question". Just listen to her, she'll give you plenty of information from which you will be able to move on. And when you listen, she'll get that feeling of knowing you.

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Can you give links?

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=conversational+skills

Lmao dude... This isn't something you learn from reading anything or watching a YouTube video.

I wrote an article on my blog called "8 Things You'll Learn About Picking Up Girls Selling Cars."

Read that. Then do something... (I.e. Get a sales job)

I learned how to make people comfortable with me within seconds from being in sales. You have to. Especially as a car salesman.... People come at you with their guard up. Ready to fight. Imagine trying to make a living like that.... Think you'd get good at it too? I bet you would.

Describe something, then ask her if she knows what you mean.

Like make some shit up i.e. I went out tonight even though my friends all stayed in for different reasons. But if you're always waiting for someone else to back you up, you run the risk of missing a new and fun experience. Have you ever have that sort of feeling when you want to do something?

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