I looked online before I came to this forum, but all the links are mainly just cosmopolitan / ask men with very generic responses.

What makes a good kiss / what are some tips on kissing?

Ask a girl to teach you.

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I'm definitely not a dancer but I can only assume that being a good kisser takes the same kind of senses that it would take to be a good dancer. Being the male lead in a dance probably involves not just deciding which steps to take together, but being sensitive to all of the tiny ways her body communicate that she wants to go left, right, up, down or whatever. You end up "leading" her body in the way that she wanted to go in the first place.

It's like a flowing dance of compromise between the direction you want to go toward in the end and what her body/mind wants to do in the moment.

I feel like that sort of thing not only makes for good kisses, but a very good seduction overall.

This should help

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ioqpLgk8hqY

The crucial tip I am going to give is probably one you did not think about: Gum. Have fresh breath...I am telling you now, nothing sucks than making out with some hella bad breath. I even give it to the girl if she has beer breath. I am not about that life.


Now make sure you don't start french kissing, she will let you know. Start of gently....cup the side of her cheek. Grab her by the hips and not the ass....and relax and let it flow.

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Hello! I agree with Mr. Assertive - fresh breath is required.

but there's something so natural about it - it doesn't take skill. I think it's a matter of just RELAXING and not thinking about it. And there's like a sweet spot of where you are in sync with the person you're kiss. For example, i dated a guy who was a terrible kisser- at least WITH ME. (maybe he could kiss other people well)-it was like we couldn't get the right rhythm with each other. We'd breathe in at the same time so there was this like cold air suction and he was just all slobbery and aggressive too. like relax, and enjoy... go slow, but not TOO slow. feel out the other person and get in sync with their rhythm!

Lol it really is going to just take some practice.

Don't SHOVE your tongue down a girls throat. Honestly, save the tongue shit. Keep that few and far between.

Being a good kisser really isn't just about connecting with the girls lips. It's about how you make her feel as a woman.