So there's this girl, I've been seeing that I liked more, at first, we were mostly FWB. And she has a super high sex drive. I seen her about 3 weeks ago and we got out great it set a new connection to us knowing each other after a while of not hanging out. So after that I approached her to see her again and she wanted too but keeps telling me she's busy for the week. And can't agree to schedule something. Now she didn't flake but she would tell me she can't make the day or that week cause she's busy when I'm sure she's doing nothing. Really.

And, this is the 3rd time, and personally I had enough, I felt degraded having to keep asking her or unappreciated. I always chade, chase, chase so I tried to take the position of power. This is kinda new for me. Imo, I don't think I did 100%, but I thought I'd used it as experience and didn't care about getting her, more about developing my game. Here's our text

Me: Sends pic "Your underwear color and the last thing you ate = your stripper name." I'm Black Taco, you?
Her: Black granola bar....
Her: Not a cool name
Me: That sounds like an old lady stripper, ha
Her: That name doesn't suit me
Me: I can see myself as El Black Tàco. I'll wear just cufflinks and that's it
Me: Or... maybe no cufflinks at all. Ha
Her: Haha
Me: Btw, I'm still gonna' beat you at pool. You + Me, Sunday 5pm
Her: I'm busy Sunday ☹
Her: But it's happening soon
Me: I have a hectic schedule so I have to plan things in advance. Time is rare for me
Her: I knoww. We will figure something out. Promise
Me: I'm out of town Thurs/Fri. When works for you
Her: Not free until next week
Me: OK...
Her: Yea. Sorry. This week is busy (She responds back with immediately)
Me: We don't have to hang out if you're too busy (I continue to push things, trying to create some drama, show her idc. She doesn't reply)

So I could... text her today with "But I trust you and will take you up on this promise. Shoot me a text on Sunday. Sound good?"

What do you guys think

I think your getting needy.

If she's just FWB status, get with another option. She'll come around.....or not.

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You're right man. I feel terrible. But overall, how do you think my text was. Plus, what's my next move?

Text was very needy, next move is to ignore her for a whike,go chill with other girls, she will think why this guy not chasing me anymore... The when she texts u again check if the text is just for attention or to really hookup....

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I like this quote from the forum I frequent “An interested woman will find 25 hours in a day for you.”

Think Dragula posted it in another thread. It's the absolute truth, there's no such thing as "too busy" if she's interested; she'll make time.

Not interested.

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stop inviting her out. The more she says no the more you are digging yourself a grave. Just let her be. Oh well, you should have other chicks that are down to hang with you. Live in abundance, these things magically appear to work themselves out. Next thing you know they are texting you late at night and you didn't even remember that she existed because you were so busy with something else.

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I found out she's been really depressed lately so maybe she has a lot going on. It's been about a week, I'm considering calling her

leave it

and really if someone's feeling down, you'd think they'd jump at a chance for some excitement from someone they're interested in

she's not interested, plain and simple

I swear lately every is trying to date depressed women. Or using their being depressed as some kind of excuse.

I can't help but wonder, where are you finding these girls?

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These guys need to start bringing Xanax on dates or what?

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These guys need Xanax and they need to stop being Capatain save a ho

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