I've had this happen twice so far. I'm in a great set, enjoying the night, it looks like I'm definitely going to pull, but then she goes to the bathroom or to talk to her friends and you have two choices, open a new set or stand there awkwardly. Both times I've opened new sets, but the whole time I was paranoid that the girl was going to come back and see me grinding/making out with another random woman and get pissed and bail (though, ironically, both times I was with 7s and then started talking to a 10, both who were actually showing me IOIs but I chose to go back to my 7s because they were "sure things" and I know my game is nowhere near good enough to pull a 10 right now.)

So my question is, at what point during the set do you have to actually commit to it in order to pull? Would the girls even care if she came back and saw me making out with another girl? Would that actually turn them on?

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This question is a bit unrealistic. If a girl that is into you leaves you to go to the restroom, do you really think that you'll be making out with a new girl that's hotter before she makes it back? You didn't even get to that point with the girl that you were talking to. If she breaks conversation with you to go talk to her friends and doesn't come back within a few minutes, you weren't doing as good as you thought you were with her.

Either way...if a girl leaves you and doesn't give you any kind of indication that she wants you to wait for her, do what you have to do without trying to figure out her reaction. I'd rather blow it with her and the better looking girl than to sit around waiting for someone.

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So much is disorientated about this post.

Why would you leave the 10's and go back to the 7's if they were IOI'ing you?
How were the 7's sure things? Did you actually take them home after this occasion?
If so, why are you asking this question if they were sure things?

Your post kind of doesn't really make sense... but anyway...
You are greatly misunderstanding how most girls perceive situations when you are getting the attention of other women aswell as them.
There are a few reasons girls go to the bathroom in clubs. The first is to get away from guys that are boring them. The second reason is to fix themselves up and do their makeup. The third is to have a 'girl chat'..

Scratch that... they will always go to do their makeup (lol). But the way you'll be able to tell if they are actually trying to get away from you or they are having one of their glorious girl talks and talking about how hot you just came across... well... use your fucking brain. It shouldn't be hard to tell. What vibes are they giving you before they leave?

No matter what the reason they go to the toilet. Unless they IOI you to come in with them then just let them go then either A) Find a seat and chill for a while or B) Attempt another pick up and move on with things.

The worst thing you can do is be bothered about it. So be cool. Real players don't worry about shit like this.

If they liked what they got from you before they went to the toilet... they will IOI you somehow later on through the night if they see you again.

Sorry if I wasn't clear enough in writing this post. To answer your questions, in the last instance I did take the 7 home. She went to the bathroom literally to use the bathroom but during those five minutes I found myself grinding with/talking to a very drunk 10, who I definitely could have made out with but chose not to because it was clear I was already going to take the 7 home. However the first time this happened, I really wasn't sure if the girl was into me or not, so I started talking to the 10 (yes, another one) but the 7 came back and I bailed out fast before she saw me, which I now regret because I went home alone anyway.

You guys basically answered my question but just to clarify, it essentially is; would it be a DHV or just straight up rude to start escalating a new set while your perfectly good set who will almost certainly go home with you is away for 5 minutes? It's either going to turn her on more or piss her off.

But you are right that's kind of a stupid question, as there are too many variables for anyone to give a solid answer. I regret asking it now. Carry on.

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If the old girl comes back from the bathroom, introduce her to the new girl as your "friend" and let them talk to each other/fight over you.

Where you take it from there is really up to your imagination. You can be the guy girls do crazy shit with if you put yourself in the right situations.