| Hi,
(First of all-this is my first post. Any technical feedback is welcome, I was not sure which section this belongs to)
Just wandering your response to a phrase I sometimes get from attractive girls. I heard it recently from a HB10 from my social circle. The phrase is "I always get what I want".
Just to give you some context: the girl that said it recently is extremely sexy (young /several plastic surgeries - nose, implants), wealthy (her parents gave her a company at the age of 16y, she has a lot of capital although does not work a lot) This background reinforces her behaviour with men: she is "childish" and dominating at the same time, feels very powerfull and is a full-time seducer. She is a friend of a friend, I saw her a few times over the last years. I've seen her behave in the clubs, she could approach a bunch of guys, pick the best looking one, pull him out a few steps from the group and start dancing for him like a stripper (she has got some very seductive moves!). She would allow him to get closer, touch her and almost kiss her and than she would vanish in the club and let him chase her. In the end the poor dude would not find her and if he did she would just avoid him, always with a teasing look. She has a lot of sex with different guys and she "plays" with them (she has a rep for this:). Basing on those facts and the (not very developed) knowledge I have on pua-related areas I would say that this might call for using the tactics similar to what you would use for a stripper.
I had a few short 1 on 1 interections with her, when she is in the appropriate mood and setting she would behave similarly towards me - very flirtous, displaying high value, doing push and pulls. She would however always bounce back to a 'diplomatic' ending as we are in the same social group, kiss me and other friends in the cheek when leaving the party and say goodbye. We never had any deep rapport, just banter and occasional teasing. We did not kiss or have any sex. i feel that she does not percieve me as having high value and uses the occasion to "play" with me. I am a sucker for it, I unconciously feel that might lead to a fun situation when we ditch the group and head to my place for drinks and sex:) i perceive her as a person that finds very hard to find an equal social partner (she did have a secret thing with a celebrity guy and I guess she aims for similar stuff) but has sex with different guys for fun.
During a very recent meeting we were talking (about different things related to her life) and she used the phrase "I always get what I want". It seemes to be a generic thing high value girls will say from time to time (with integrity:). Assuming that you don't have a social status that would meet her's and have to work for building your value perception (which I suck at, we always seem to end up talking about her), how would you respond to that?
My response to that was "It's a mindset". Now it seems stupid but at the moment it occured to me that she might think that "this guy feel this way too, he knows this mindset". However, I am not sure whether this was the best thing to say, I was aiming for a display of my own value in a non-bragging way (instead of responding like "yeah. Me too"). The conversation took another route and the setting changed (common friends came in).
What do you think how would you respond to this? Was my response good? What shout be the best response in a similar situation in the future?
PS
I also would appreciate any tips on handling the mentioned girl, or how should I approach the situation. I would love to have sex with her (honestly, face of an angel and porn star body) i would love to date her (even knowing the tricks she uses does not make me immune to her game, i fall for it like a little boy) yet I could not imagine a relationship with such a person (Screwed a lot of guys including some i know).
Kind regards,
trj
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