Hey Everyone ! so my post have two questions, and I was hoping to get some advice.

So last week I went out multiple times and met some girls. I got 6 numbers. Every time I take the number of a girl I tell her that she should come join my friends and I on this day party that's happening the next day (or two days later). They always sound interested, but never come. I mean from the 6 numbers I got, they all genuinely sounded interested in coming but none of them end up coming. They usually have an excuse! So I was wondering if this is very normal ? and if I should me more pushy ? or I'm being already to pushy ? (This also happen to the girl I met at work).

My second question is in regard of the way I talk with the girls. I feel like I start off perfectly! but then I feel like it that I struggle to transition into flirting !

Thank you for your help and excuse my english

Your second question may be part of the problem regarding your first question. You're getting numbers without flirting is a recipe for flaking. Instead of transitioning to flirting, you should try starting off with flirting. It's more fun for the woman and you.

Flakes happen even to the best guys even if they run great game.

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You sure party a lot lol

I've found that girls are more likely to flake if you hadn't built enough rapport during the first interaction. Find some genuine common ground before number closing instead of number closing just because they're hot.

In regards to your trouble with transitioning: someone (Juggler) once said "The best transition is no transition." Don't bother trying to make a smooth transition if you can't think of one. Just start flirting. What's even better is to sometimes ditch the indirect approach altogether and start flirting straight from the start.

Try various combinations and see what suits you best.

And your English is fine.

You are probably treating the number as like a navy seal mission where you are focused on extracting it from them rather than focusing on them. I am curious if you are leaving right after you make your statement of "oh you should come with" because that might be your problem if you are just saying that to number close.

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