As you get into game, you cant help people watch. Reading peoples body language,vocal tones,patterns etc. You can often see where things went or well. However theres times where you just confused as fuck thinking about how certain shit happened. Like how how does a woman decide who she likes?

Example. Good looking female friend of mine, has a potential lot of suitors. Some days she missed her long time ex and sometimes she says she misses her most recent x. She can never seem to make her mind up on what she actually wants.

But there was this club promoter she knew, they went out on a few dates, she totally blew him off, moaned and bitched about him. He got a girlfriend, then she all of a sudden became somewhat interested again, then really interested when he split up with her. To the point where she said i really like(club promoters name) i think i want to go out with him.

I just wanted to knock her on the head, as i was confused as fuck, like the guy was treating you well, you had your chance why are you still bother know.

Like i see this weird shit a lot with women, where as i feel like men work in this format.

is she good looking>do we get on/chemistry>will she fuck me. But from what i see girls looooooooooooooove( i cant even emphasise the word love enough) drama. Not all girls, but the for the most part, especially the better looking ones, thrive off drama wtf is up with that lol ?

Simple. Saw another attractive girl that was into him and his subjective value shot up in her mind "Must be something to him if she's with him" also that all of a sudden became unavailable

But i hate talking about it in a computerised black/white fashion. But there is clear distinction how a man and woman are attracted and progress with their interactions/mindsets.

Kinda vague your question.

Why do women think in this weird fucked up confusing fashion, like i don't think value matters as much to a man as it does to a woman ( like it still matters). And why are my friends decision making so poor in choosing a partner. Like i get its harder for women to a certain extent, trying to sift through all the guys that just want of fuck you but nothing more. But shell pick dates and go on dates that most men would find pointless, like girls will do it just because , men do things for reasons if that makes any sense.

Women typically suffer from quality, not quantity. Men typically suffer from quantity, and live through a scarcity mindset because they fail to recognize that how they feel towards themselves is DIRECTLY proportional to the # of women responsive (attracted) to them (quantity & quality).

Women IMHO have it worse; imagine if you're average to stunning the amount of approaches you get from the time you sprout breasts onward is ridiculous; they have to learn to filter well (and often-times they go through a whole lot of shitty experiences and their filters become less permeable). Guys pursue so they create options, generally speaking. It's not nearly as common for a guy to have to reject a woman he's not interested as women have to reject men.

This is exactly why. It is shallow to base interest in a man in an extrinsic way like this, but it is just human nature...

Sure and it's just as "shallow" pursue a woman initially based on looks alone...

Yes, that is true. I'm not arguing that men don't do the same. I just believe human nature at its core is selfish and shallow. Humans evolve and develop beyond primal instincts though.

What's sad about this post is that it's the stuff that we preach all of the time. We tell guys that when women reject you, find another girl and watch the women that reject you interest's spike but most guys choose the route of try hard. We tell you that women are creatures of the moment and may feel one way one day and another on a different. It's nothing new except that you're seeing it first hand.

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