So I started talking to my neighbor finally asked for her number and she was down to hang out. I came off a bit awkward when i asked for her number but I don't think it phased her too much.

We texted alot for a few days and decided to go do some hot yoga. After that she wouldn't text me anymore and I was have to initiate the contact every time. So I'm not the guy to keep chasing a girl so I gave it a few days before I reached out to her again but didn't get a decent vibe off her. I asked her if she wanted to hang out again and she came up with the excuse of being busy so its clear she lost interest.

To add on last weekend after we hung out she had another guy leave her apartment with her, they most likely banged that night. So I'm feeling like a loser now haha dont know what I'm doing wrong.

I do live in an area where the guys outnumber the women a lot but still there has to been something I did wrong because why would she lose interest that quick?

texting too much? replying back to fast maybe?( she would reply back super fast though too)

I need advice from guys on here man.

It doesn't mean you did anything wrong. No matter how good you are with women, you won't get every girl. Every girl that you go on a date with won't always want a second date. This guy could have been around a lot longer than you are aware of. There is so much stuff that can go on that it doesn't necessarily revolve around you or be your fault.

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JackZero is right, but why don't you start by describing what happened during the hot yoga date.

He farted in her face whilst doing Downward Dog.

haha nice

nothing really we just worked out it was smooth. She was the goofy one while i'm used to having hot yoga in my routine so its all familiar to me. It went smoothly and then dropped her off (she lives above me) .she even said If im sore tomorrow im gonna come after you in a playful way, but damn shit just fell off after that day lol

After that she stopped hitting me up and I dont know why lol The way she was texting me it seemed like she was super into me but its just something I cant read lol

I approached another girl a few weeks back got her number after a smooth conversation but nothing after that. A few no responses and then the "im very busy" text lol

The women that I score with usually show heavy interest right off the bat and I have them in my bed by second meeting.I usually just ask for their number quickly too. Its always on an extreme condition like that. Never experienced a smooth relationship lol. All I can conclude is the hot chicks with a secure mindset like the socially perfected individuals lol but whatever gotta keep it moving

My final thoughts on all this is, I think I may have beta tendencies or I am a boring dude with no social life
(studying engineering will do that)

so I attract insecure or boring women. I really believe you are what you attract. I am 26 now just graduated and trying to break out of it but not sure if I ever can at this point.

any advice guys ? lol

You didn't escalate. And I'm guessing your texts are standard and boring.

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Escalate after first meet up with her? I usually throw sexual remarks but I didnt with her...maybe I should have.

well I texted her again and asked if she wanted to hang out but she was busy studying for a board exam now. the thing is she never initiates conversation but she always replies if I hit her up within minutes and replies back super fast as well. She is one of those solo girls who never goes out on weekends but occasionally invites a guy over, not sure why she lost interest in me so quick lol

Usually if girls are not interested they dont reply or reply back very slowly.

Should I leave this one and look for another chick? because once you turn a girl off its usually no going back I think?

Yes +. What made her so special you didn't?
Yes, but it doesn't mean completely off the radar.

Flirt with her. Send her this "Quick question: what do you do when there’s someone you can’t stop fantasizing about but you have no idea how to talk to them about it?"

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Text her you've got this rare disease if you don't get pussy your dick will go gangrene and fall off, tell her it has to be with a particular girl (her type) and she can learn about it from wikipedia by searching "Pon farr". Spock almost succumbed to it if it weren't for getting to planet Vulcan so he could sew his wild oates.