"Good Girls" Love Me but "Hoes" Hate Me



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PostPosted: Tue May 10, 2016 9:33 pm 
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So i've noticed a little pattern in the women I am around through work, school, and the like.

For the past several years I have had consistent interest from women that were "the good girls", girls that wanted to find that one man, girls that wanted to wait until marriage for sex, etc.

However, you take a look at the women from the opposite end of the spectrum and you get a different outlook.

The girls that would come to the bar and be down for a SNL with an average guy, suck your dick in the parking lot, fuck 2-3 guys in the same night; These type of girls cannot stand me, even after a simple "may I see your I.D." and "have a good night" I get looks of horrid disdain.

Maybe hating the bouncer is the cool thing to do, maybe they are mad that I have their little sorority sister's fake I.D. in my lock in my personal collection. I'm not quite sure.

What would be the reason for this? Is there an actual way a guy acts that repels "Hoes"

I use the word "Hoe" loosely because i believe in sexual equality' it is just so that yall can get the idea.

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PostPosted: Tue May 10, 2016 9:40 pm 
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think you are looking for one night stand, would you choose sticky needy chick? So same take it to you, probably you seem like needy and they do not fuck with you cuz you are sticky.

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PostPosted: Tue May 10, 2016 9:47 pm 
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For me it is exact opposite. Hoes like me cuz i am the guy they are looking for. Good girls do not like me for several reasons. Cuz they know if i could find a possibility, without a hesistance i will fuck them. I am not a relation material.. Seems like you are.

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PostPosted: Wed May 11, 2016 5:24 pm 
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Because hoes don't like to be treated nice. You're too nice for them hence why good girls like you. In my experience many girls who exhibit behavior you brought up are desperate for male attention. Many also suffer from internal conflict about their slutiness. They don't want you to be polite and nice they want you to take charge and man the fuck up even if you are sort of mean to them. Girls who are hoes tend to use their sexuality as a weapon. When the fuck you the win. If ur a good guy there's no challenge they know u would fuck them. If u treat them like the hoe they are they want to win u over. They take the power back by controlling the dynamic with their pussy. I know some girls like that and I've had success by saying nothing but pretty mean shit to them. Stuff like if "if we had ever been in the same room together alone we would have already fucked" or "we will sleep together when I feel like trying. Haven't had the desire to yet" obviously you need to get the convo to that. They will say some super bitchy stuff back u just gotta roll with it and maintain your frame. They will like the confidence and dismissive attitude and want to add you
To their list of lays. It's an ego thing


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Most hoes have an Avoidant Attachment style by default, so they're repulsed by guys trying to 'connect' and get too close to them. They aren't out for connection as they've learned its associated with a lot of pain and rejection through their early years growing up as young girls. That's why if you're putting-out relationship vibes or ANY behavior that can easily be construed (or misconstrued) as clingy, they'll run the other way. Fine if you're seeking a relationship, but not so much if you're looking for a surface relationship that's only physical.

There's no such thing as a "good girl" or "bad girl", nor do women seek-out assholes and douches per se. Rather the "bad girl" generally has an insecure attachment style (almost always Avoidant, never Anxious), whereas the Secure types are more discerning and far fewer in the dating pool as they tend to have healthier relationships with men and remain in them much longer.

You guys, like many others, are confused into thinking they like men who are "mean" to them. It is far more likely they're seeking out Avoidant males for sexual encounters because the (psychological) distance they need will be guaranteed, thereby minimizing risk of it turning into anything beyond a sexual relationship. In addition, when these women get involved with Anxious type males, this type of guy serves a purpose in reaffirming her (often misguided) belief that other people are trying to control her/not respect her 'autonomy'.

Some things to watch out for in an Avoidant's language will be language such as "I am a free spirit", "I am scared to be in a relationship because I always lose myself/my autonomy", "guys are just too clingy" etc... These alone aren't necessarily proof that she's Avoidant, but they are pretty strong cues.


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Most hoes have an Avoidant Attachment style by default, so they're repulsed by guys trying to 'connect' and get too close to them. They aren't out for connection as they've learned its associated with a lot of pain and rejection through their early years growing up as young girls. That's why if you're putting-out relationship vibes or ANY behavior that can easily be construed (or misconstrued) as clingy, they'll run the other way. Fine if you're seeking a relationship, but not so much if you're looking for a surface relationship that's only physical.

There's no such thing as a "good girl" or "bad girl", nor do women seek-out assholes and douches per se. Rather the "bad girl" generally has an insecure attachment style (almost always Avoidant, never Anxious), whereas the Secure types are more discerning and far fewer in the dating pool as they tend to have healthier relationships with men and remain in them much longer.

You guys, like many others, are confused into thinking they like men who are "mean" to them. It is far more likely they're seeking out Avoidant males for sexual encounters because the (psychological) distance they need will be guaranteed, thereby minimizing risk of it turning into anything beyond a sexual relationship. In addition, when these women get involved with Anxious type males, this type of guy serves a purpose in reaffirming her (often misguided) belief that other people are trying to control her/not respect her 'autonomy'.

Some things to watch out for in an Avoidant's language will be language such as "I am a free spirit", "I am scared to be in a relationship because I always lose myself/my autonomy", "guys are just too clingy" etc... These alone aren't necessarily proof that she's Avoidant, but they are pretty strong cues.
THis is good shit, where can I go or what can I read to learn how to turn this to my advantage?

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