Been busy to post for a while but i do have an issue.There is this guy i became neighbours with of late.I would describe him as good looking.He is also rich and drives an expensive car.When we first became neighbours,he did not know anything about game.He saw me picking up women and was impressed by it so he started probing.I gave him tips and quickly introduced him to the world of gaming.In the end he started stealing my sets.Whenever we go out,we go out using his car and he always drives it and never offered me to drive it so in the end the chicks gravitate towards him.There is a set that went cold on me and he is now talking to her.I told him that that is not cool but he says i don't stand a chance with her and that he stands a better chance.Should i ditch him? I feel like if you want to be a wing to person you must prioritize their feelings over the ones of the girl and make them feel good.If i had a dope car i would let my wing drive it at times to make them look good.Should i ditch him? what do you guys think of this situation? Clearly he has more status than i do.That does not bother me but what bothers me is that he does not want to pull me up.

Have you ever asked him about driving the car here and there ? And honestly, it is his car, he doesn't have to let you be entitled to anything. He does sound like he is full of himself though. I'd ditch him. I already sense negative energy. Let him come crawling back or just go back to what you were doing and find a wing around your level.

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I had that same problem with a guy just met. He is kinda natural and i liked his style so we hit to road and came a bar which with full of chicks. We stand in front of this bar and there were two chicks near him and i said f you want to open be my guest. So he fucked up by talking and i said him let me to do this which she denied and targeted a set, i knew one of these chicks and i made mt plan so we sat together. He fucked also up. It is just greed i suppose to say and i am considering to ditch him too if he insist to repeat her behavior.

I thinking to create a body language to share chicks without a verb. And also i will say to him before we approach we should pick to chicks. Of course there is a possibility to change . but best thing we can do is sharing otherwise i will say bye.

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Yeah I agree with mr. You're not entitled to drive his car. Personally I won't let a friend drive my car for picking up women cause I won't want my car getting scratched and dinged while my friends eyes aren't on the road. He did make a dickish comment but even then it doesn't sound like he is actively stealing your girls... You even said the girl went cold on you. Being a cool wing goes both ways... It also means you realize when a chick isn't interested in you so you let your buddy have her. If the girl moved to him, YOU were in the wrong for asking him to leave a girl that wasn't interested in YOU. A good wing means you let your buddy game and if your buddy's game doesn't land, your buddy let's you try. It doesn't mean if this girl isn't interested in you then no one can talk to her. If the girl went to him, his comment was rude but true by her actions. Stop being childish and if the guy is getting girls from you without actively blocking you improve your game.

i did suggest letting me drive only because he never lets his other friends also drive his car but anyway the guy has more status than i do and when we go out chicks can see that.It is always an uphill task for me gaining their interest even though i am the more talkative one.

my game is better than his.I am a more talkative and the funnier and wittier guy infact when we go out to the field he never says much.i am the one who keeps the chick entertained and give them a good time but somehow they seem to be more interested in him than they do in me which proves that status trumps game.

Seems it was not enough. My suggestion is, if there is seeable difference between you and your mate, you guys should not hangout together. Seems it effects your game. You should either improve your game or do not hang out with this type.

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What you're saying you have is not game. You're better at ENTERTAINING and TALKING...He's better at ATTRACTING. You're an entertainer...if you were good at "game" some of the girls would choose him for his looks and status, some would choose you for your appeal and intrigue. Dont get wrong, status and looks is BIG, I wont say they wont beat you out sometimes. But it sounds like you're overestimating your game and blaming him for your results. A guy who can pull and attract women can "sarge" with someone of higher status and better looks and still get results from it.

How is he gonna attract when he can't keep hold an interesting conversation? it is just plain and simple.He has better looks and is damn richer than i am.am not jealous of that but it is the reality.i have had other wings.their looks were just like mine and we didn't have much differences when it comes to status and it was never like that with them and some of those wings were really good.their game both verbal and non verbal was good but still they were not stealing all my sets.sometimes i will get the chick they won't or they will but i won't at times we will both get chicks but with this guy every time i go with him even if i am the one who invited the chicks i still lose out to him.is he interesting as person? not that much.his verbal game is shit but he has status and looks and that seems to seriously to work for him to my detriment.

yeah there is a sizeable difference between me and him especially when it comes to status.every time we go out together he seems to flop me.my game is good but i do not have much status i am a jobless graduate but he works.

He is attracting the women. Whether it be looks or status they are as you said going to him. So you can't say he isn't attracting then if they're going to him. My point is whether you're with someone with better verbal game or who attracts women through whatever over you then your game should be improved. Or get status like him. Or just don't hang with him.

Work on. Your inner game. If you feel overshadowed by these men then it means you should take a step back and evaluate. I'm not saying you're not in their league, it's that I don't want you to feel insecure or keep putting yourself in situations that will hurt your self esteem. Find someone else around your level of you want a wingman that bad. I've been solo hunting for years. You definitely grow on your own and come to rely on yourself

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thanks i get what you mean.i need to up my game but at the same time i think i should avoid going out with him until i can match his status.And anyway he is not the generous type i don't think he will do something to improve my status.

i don't use a wingman that much but there are places like clubs where you need them because they are full of cockblocks.Am not a big fan of night game i do usually day game and online game and i usually do it solo and it brings me success.Think i should definately ditch this guy he only hurts my self esteem and he seems like a selfish person because he never bothers to make you look good.All i try to do for people in game or in life is to make them look good and try to improve their situation if i can.He never seems to think like that.With him it is all about him.

take a look that perspective. op is like female lion who hunts, and his wing is like male lion who steals the meat. Not just for that and also like we fight each other for the best chick, maybe chicks are playin to his wing. So either way i understand op but you can do better for sure. It is a sign for you to improve your game otherwise everytime you have hunger even if you catch.

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