Recently started speaking to a girl who has come out of a long relationship (within the last month).

I've met her a few times, and the other day I managed to get her back to mine. But, before anything happened she said she wasn't ready and she didn't know how long it would be before she was.

She always replies when I message her and initiates the conversation quite a bit. But, I still get mixed signals from her. For example, last week she asked me to go out for drinks with her, then when I asked this week she seemed totally against it.

How should I approach this situation?

Should I leave it for a few months, or just talk to her once in a while?

I would push her away a little, she will be in touch

You can punish her a little by giving brief replies and that might make her work for you

Then red wine and netflix & chill, if she flakes again, cut her off

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Op if your aim is to get that chick as you gf, forget it, listen what she says. If you like to just fuck, play the cool guy and wait for the right moment, and make tou mive by escalating.

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