After years of witnessing this, I'm officially bothered, admittedly envious. I've even expressed to him how fucking angry this makes me. As they say in Swingers, he's so money and doesn't even know it.

I'm getting into this game because I'm an attractive dude yet I'm bad at talking to women. I've been studying Mystery Method and had my first kiss close last week using it. I'm working hard. Since I've been sexually active (about 10 years) I've had six one night stands and a single relationship which lasted all but two months. I need this. I need to learn this. I study this. I work at this.

But this is bothering the fuck out of me. I have a buddy who lands chicks from online dating like a fucking boss. I've attempted to study him, to see how he does it. This guy is awkward, hairy (Robin Williams ape style but without the personality), beta as hell. When he gets a girl, he never takes her out. The entire relationship is "Netflix and chill."

His last chick he had for about six months. Model, fucking TEN. Their "dates" consisted of him going to her place, or her coming to him. His mentality is this is a girlfriend, that they actually date. He's attempted to justify to me that she is a girlfriend. I've explained to him, embrace the fuckbuddy relationship because this is what it is. No girl he's been with have they gone out in public. Just fucked. But these girls are fucking solid. I thought they were using him, because he sees it as serious when it's not. But the man has something. Without realizing it, he's money.

These things end with the girl breaking it off. He doesnt' understand the frame, even though he works it like a god damn savage. Then gets mad when they leave. Guy is crushing and doesn't even realize it.

His dating profile is "nerdy-guy-something-something-gamer-nerd-something." I had him link it to me (not linking it here out of respect). He has a single picture, a selfie of him just frumpy in frame. His profile is basic, no DHV's, just vague mundane shit.

You can cringe at how mad I am, but you don't know this fuck like I do. He has zero game, no hygiene, hairy as fuck. I'm convinced it's the beard and the ambivalence. He said his strategy was to just send a message saying "hey, you're cute, let's text." I get that. I agree with that. But this recent one. Holy shit.

My pics are solid. My profile is solid. We both messaged the same girl, he ended up fucking her.

I get that this shouldn't piss me off, but it does. How does an awkward D&D beta motherfucker crush it, and not realize he is crushing it, yet I'm sitting here boning fat chicks? The part that bothers me the most is that he won't admit to his natural game, won't embrace it. He could be in social circle game if he just walked outside once in awhile.

Seriously. I've asked him to come to bars with me to meet women. He won't. Never fucking leaves the house unless he's going to work, in which case he plays video games in his office. The one time I've actually taken him out was to a strip club, and he was terrified to even talk to the strippers. The girls who are paid to boost your ego.

Can someone please explain to me what he is doing right? So far, as said, I am guessing the beard and the ambivalence. He never goes out, stays at home all day playing video games, and just has these girls come over to fuck him.

Please, community. Please justify this. I'm absolutely livid. Envy is a terrible sin here. We're told to just be alpha and not worry about that kinda shit. But this fucking bothers me.

Bro I feel you. Exactly the same situation with me. The only real difference is that my mate KNOWS he has game. And he's at best a 6/10. The girls he lands are impeccable, and it bugs me cause he constantly nags and brags about it to me. I feel you dude

Oh, but he does. He does have game, and that should be obvious because he's fucking the girl you wish you were fucking.

A large part of "game" is teaching guys to be true to themselves and true to their desires. This guys' desire is to stay at home and play videogames. And he makes it work because he doesn't try to hide it. He doesn't "DHV" into something he's not and as such the girls get exactly what they expect.

Add a bit of charismatic confidence in there and he's good to go.

That's not to say you shouldn't put some effort into your online profile. He'd do far better if he did. But going over the top is just as bad.

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Well said.

Well, my beard has never had that effect so...

I get that he is true to himself. Which is great. But that message to women "hey you are cute, let's text" is what 99% of dudes send out and the opposite of interesting. I've come across the types of guys OP is mad about. I used to work with a skinny little kid with a sloppy beard and a self deprecating sense of humor. Meanwhile I had 40 lbs of muscle on him, a borderline-cocky demeanor, and a palpable confidence about me. Sure, I pulled the hottest girl there and he actually failed to do so (she told me afterwards) but he pulled a few other girls that I chose not to pursue bc it would have blown up my spot with hottie. They never called him back or anything, but the fact that they fucked him was bewildering to me. He was beta as can be, yielding arguments to me, calling me "big guy" in front of them, and not the greatest self confidence.

But he tagged another girl that I could have tagged had I not been banging another hottie in that social circle. He also tagged a girl that I pursued aftet him that wasn't interested in me. Sure he was personable, but I wouldn't say he had game. In fact he was known as the guy who would kiss the customer's ass in front of them and then complain about them later on to the staff, aka a people pleaser.

Sometimes even nice guys whonare just personable with little game can get ass, but in a different situation, for instance as OP said out at a bar, they'd be useless

Sounds like an outlier tbh.

I mean, if he's frumpy like that, I highly doubt he is consistently getting attractive women online, unless you live in a city where women read every message regardless of profile picture, or are that desperate that they'd bother. Online starts with looks before they even read your message, so even if he has the ultimate messaging skills, he must have to message a ton of women to hit something nearing consistency.

So he's probably playing the numbers, or your city/dating site is a special case. There is also the possibility that he's just lying to you. I'm just skeptical because if this is online, its highly unlikely unless he's playing massive numbers. In person...maybe...Online...nah.

If this is true, then he must have some qualities..and you as his buddy should know them. He cant be that terrible, and if he is, then I'm calling it an outlier. Either way, you shouldnt jealous. He's your buddy, so you should know his good qualities beyond "DHVs" and other bs.