So basically I work in a big place where we can all meet and chat etc.This is something I've seen happen a lot and guys either freeze or seem like they're trying to prove themselves. It feels like a lose lose situation. Just wondered if anyone had any alternatives.

So basiclsly a work colleague of mine worse some trainers, she commented she didn't like them( fair enough) then she started talking about his little feet and shouted for the whole places to here that had small feet which meant he had a little penis. The whole floor started laughing including myself. He kind of froze but then replied the girls don't complain, they always come back for more.

I've seen so many times where guys get boxed into this situation, how's best to come out on top.

This kind of questions piss me off.
It's like some of you guys are expecting us to hold your hands throughout your entire lives.

If you don't have the mental agility to be able to handle situations like this, then you deserve what's happening to you.

She's either being playful, in which case she probably likes you but your head is too far up your ass to realize that, and you're here asking how to handle a girl showing the most elementary form of interest.
How stuck up must you be to not capable of taking a joke like that?
or

Her intentions are obviously malicious, trying to embarrass you quite blatantly, and you're here asking us how to handle people disrespecting you.

Who the hell gets disrespected out of nowhere like that, by a woman no less? And when you're being dissed, your solution to that problem is having a witty comeback to come out on top? lol

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......lol this wasn't about me, it was just about my friend and it was just funny to see him get put in a box, like it happens to everyone, but never really see guys deal with it well, they either shutdown or try and over prove themselves. I was just asking how do you handle that.

Me personally I would either shutdown or my comeback would be too personal and I wouldn't want it to become this arguing match, I tend to usually shutdown.

There's is 3 options

Shutdown(poor)
Over qualify yourself (poor)
Comeback( has to be executed perfectly not to come across bitter- best choice, most difficult)

I hardly see that happen to anyone.

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im not really sure how big/small your social circle is. When i go out with a group of friends or meet new girls, theres most times a cocky female who will bust your balls for no reason, its somewhat exciting cause theres a challenge but somewhat intimidating cause she's fucking up your "social value".

was just wondering what the best way is to deal with these girls, i don't think they mean harm, or the necessarily interested, just wondering how not to look a tool, especially if there maybe girls you are interested in around.

Initially you called it work.

Anyway, the same applies. She's either being playful or a social idiot, unless you did something to provoke.
The point is, if it's the latter, you don't "come back from it". You simply stop acknowledging that person. If you don't hold yourself to high enough standards to not allow yourself being walked over, then ofcourse you're headed towards a lose-lose situation.

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I go out quite a bit and the only time I see this happen is when the guy comes across as cocky with women or from the women that will absolutely be getting no attention from men and they have a stronger standing within the social circle than you do.

The problem I see with you here is that you are thinking that you need to save face in front of everyone, which is pretty much a bullshit mentality to have. Just be unaffected. If you do that, they have no power over affecting your social status.

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Quiet,

You consistently look for practice answers to questions that aren't rooted in practicality. There is no "good comeback" this is only a tone, body language, and vibe that displayed that the comment made had absolutely no impact on how you feel about yourself. If i gave you your favorite comedians best stand up routine and sent you to perform it before a giant crowd would you be able to make them all laugh just by saying the same words as the comedian? No. You would have to have similar gestures, confidence levels, and a presence to elicit a proper response from the audience. And its the same here. There is no perfect comeback, there is only a perfect state of mind. One that suggest that you aren't swayed by the opinions of others. Anything you say from that frame of mind, will suffice in any situation in which a comeback is needed.

You know how you get this state of mind? You consistently step out of your comfort zone to develop it. You're on a pick up artist forum and so consistently approaching women you don't know is a great place to start. The frame control you will develop from rejection after rejection will train you to be unaffected by the words of others.

Stop asking so many questions and start living the life that this forum is about and you won't have as many questions.

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I think my question to start off with should be, how do you become more witty and have better responses to things. I spoke to her another day and told me she had been pissing her off all day, so she had to throw a little bomb out there and let him deal with it lol

How do you think someone with self esteem would handle it?

You know pc games, in which you should push the right button for blocking the attack and make counter with double damage? Yes it is like it. I love that kind of moments cuz it gives me the strenght to make my move and have rep.

For example if chicks say men with the small feets have smaller penis. Just say like that.

Yea maybe it is true %99 percent but you should afraid %1. Laugh..

It is all power of manipulation. Giving them what they deserve. Do not try to be avoid this kinda situation, be a challanger and hit them with their weapon...

Like Mystery did,

You look like wanna kiss me.

If she says no,

Mystery said, i did not say you could.

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WTF your abashing yourself man,

you only need to say what is necessary at the time you do not have to explain yourself,
Its like your asking for workmates to Accept you and start valuing you lol
Embarrassment is Exactly the same as Rejection.. Minor differences,

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