I almost rarely post up on the forums though been into seduction for quite some time now. I feel like giving back to the community and letting people know what can happen when you commit your life to personal development.
A year ago my 7yr LTR gf dumped me at a moment’s whim which was a huge shock to me and my family. She had left me for another guy. Looking back in hindsight, the relationship was cracking weeks before but didn’t trust my intuition.
I was at a low point in my life. Had no job, borderline broke, ridiculously ill and was kicked out of the place where my ex-gf and I lived. I was seriously questioning myself and wtf I’ve been doing with my life to end up here as I’m not a druggie, rarely drink and have two educational degrees under my belt.
The next couple of weeks were a complete slur of emotions, always thinking about her and why she did this etc. I decided to remove everything about her from my life which included anything related to Facebook and old photos.
It was over and time to move on. I could either go down the sulking road which leads to nowhere or accept everything that has happened and take charge to creating a new life. I chose the latter.
In those early dark days, I frequented various pick up forums for answers and guidance. Coincidentally, a newbies night was organized in my local area three weeks later so decided this will be the turning point of my life. And boy has it been a journey!
On the night I remember meeting two experience guys who took me out to a bar where I did my first ever approach. The intense feeling of AA was unimaginable. It felt like somebody was squeezing my stomach and not letting go. They pushed me into sets and before I knew it, that mysterious hand released its clutches and I was feeling pumped. Little did I know these guys would become my new brothers.
What followed was a rampage that kept pushing the boundaries of my sexual experiences. From only having the one gf for 7 years, in the 6-month period following I had a countless number of dates, sex with about 20 girls, including having sex with a girl on a first date during the day in a car park, a cute 19yr old supermarket worker (I was 26), and one of the holy grails of pick-up - The elusive WWM threesome.
I also recently had my first SNL and SDL, though they took some time to develop as my main game came from online at the start, however nowadays 90% of my game is done live. I was heavily into tinder at one point as I just did so well (I’ve actually written a book about seducing girls on Tinder, pm me for details if interested), however tinder doesn’t actually help with your overall game.
At this point I just didn’t want to dedicate myself to woman, I wanted to improve my whole life. Financially, Socially and Physically.
Physically - With the utmost conviction, I dedicated my life to being the most fucking shredded I’ve ever been. I dieted for months whilst following a strict training regime. I went from being slightly skinny fat, to a shredded machine.
Whilst having a good body doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll pick up all the ladies, it does however make you stand out from others and makes a good talking point with girls. They will start feeling your stomach and wings would lift your shirt up in front of them. It creates a fun and playful vibe which girls just love.
Socially – Essentially, I had no ‘going out’ friends. They all had gf’s or if they did go out, they would just get blind drunk and talk shit. I had no gaming friends. Dudes who you can go out with and know they’ll have your back when you open the 2 set and need someone to occupy the other girl.
I aimed to seek all those who were better than me and befriend as many people as I could. I went balls deep into the community and eventually met most of the guys and hang out with them on a constant basis. In fact, I moved in with one.
Financially – I’m still a shit kunt in my opinion and have tons of room to grow, however I’ve started my own little business and making money for myself. I probably wouldn’t have done it without the people skills and confidence I’ve developed through game.
Seduction wise, I’m a little over the whole ‘notches’ game and prefer more enjoyable interactions. There was a point where I had 6 girls on a rotation, although short lived, I was actually not that happy and eventually I, or they stopped seeing me.
The thrill for me now is more about the live seduction process, improving the quality of my relationships and going after what YOU want, not what is being offered if you catch my drift. Having a high lay count means absolutely nothing. A loser with a high lay count is still a loser.
I write this with the intent of showing people what exactly can be achieved when you dedicate your life to this. Habits will slowly form and before you know it, you’ll become the person you want to be. Now when I go daygaming, I get digits with ease every time, my flake percentage declines, while my closing rate increases. I am attracting girls that I like and this is congruent with my intentions. I'm nothing special and you too can achieve what I have if you just apply yourself.
If you’ve read up to this point, then I thank you for your time. I also want to give back to the community and am offering some free coaching/ advice to anyone starting out. It’s a dark road up ahead and it’s just easier to see if someone shines some light. If anyone wants any advice on training/ nutrition, approach anxiety, tinder profile/ texting or anything else feel free to shoot me a pm and we’ll talk.
CHAT
